Lori Gottlieb, writing in The
Atlantic last year, claimed that
child-rearing in the current
generation has been excessively
focused on preserving
self-esteem. As an illustration
of one symptom of this, Gottlieb
quoted clinical psychologist
Wendy Mogel as saying that
parents are actually relieved to
be told that their struggling
children are learning disabled,
so that today "every child is
either learning disabled,
gifted, or both – there's no
curve left, no average." To
claim a learning disability is
the only way to set legitimate
lower benchmarks for
performance. Kids are never
just bad at anything anymore,
because that's seen as being
more harmful to self-esteem.