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Title: Who am I? Exploring Your Identity Author: Kristine Anthis, PhD Date Published: May 31st, 2011 Why Relevant and Summary: Discusses the challenge of identity achievement and why it's so hard. Includes Marcia's Identity Status Model. How This Influenced My Thinking: We all know it's hard to be in identity achievement, but this article explains why. Credibility of Source: Good.

Title: 7 Tips for a Successful Marriage Author: Tim Dowling Date: 8 February 2013 Why relevant and summary: This article provides seven solid tips for maintaining a healthy and successful marriage. For example, Dowling says, "go to bed angry if you want to" because you're better off getting a good night's sleep before tackling the conflict again. Another good tip is to remember that every relationship is unique and it is damaging to compare yours to other relationships. I think the other gives some pretty solid, yet basic marriage advice that couples considering marriage should read. How this influenced my thinking: I have been married and divorced, and am in another relationship that is progressing toward marriage. I hope to avoid the mistakes made in my first marriage, so articles like this one apply directly to my personal life. However, no matter how good the advice is, you've got to make sure you're marrying someone you can absolutely be with through thick and thin. This type of advice is for couples that are certain that they are marrying someone they are truly compatible with long-term. Credibility of source: decent. Guardian (UK) article.

Title: 7 Tips for a Successful Marriage Author: Tim Dowling Date: 8 February 2013 Why relevant and summary: This article provides seven tips for maintaining a healthy and successful marriage. How this influenced my thinking: Even though I'm not married I will keep these tips in mind when I do get married Credibility of source: Decent. Guardian (UK) article.

Title: Premarital Course for Florida Author: Dawn Lipthrott Date Published: 2012 Why Relevent and Summary: A list of course content How This Influenced My Thinking: Having never been married myself, I had no idea what a premarital class entailed. This was a helpful list of class content. Credibility of Source: Written and conducted by a licensed social worker

Title: Media's Influence on Social Norms and Identity Development of Youth Author: Worsham, S Date: 2011 Why Relevant and Summary: Explains identity formation and how much affect the media has on how we form our identity. How this changed my thinking: I never really realized how much the media influences us! Credibility of Source: Alot of references used seems credible.

Title: Creating a Strong and Satisfying Marriage Author: Janet A Clark, Sharon J Leigh Date Published: May 2000 Why Relevant and Summary: It discusses the characteristics needed for a happy and satisfying marriage, how to attain those, common areas of conflict, the importance of managing conflict, tips on how to resolve those conflicts, and tips on how to keep a marriage happy and healthy How This Influenced My Thinking: It was very informative, I thought it had some very good points. Most of it is common sense but it really puts it in perspective and lays it out for you Credibility of Source: Seems pretty credible

Title: Communication Exercises for Couples Author: Deepa Kartha Date Published: 2012 Why Relevant and Summary: goes over some good exercises that couples can go over to improve their relationship in a marriage or relationship How This Influenced My Thinking: made me think about some good ways to communicate with people more effectively. Credibility of Source: I don't know that it is super credible, but I think that the advice is solid.

Title:10 Strengths To Make A Happy Marriage Author: firstthings.org Date Published: 2010 Why relevant and summary: this webpage discusses the strengths needed to create a successful marriage. The author discusses their finding after having researched what makes a happy marriage; clear communication, flexibility, and other characteristic of the marriage are what creates the happiness. How This Influenced My Thinking: For the most part it didn't. It reinforced what Ii already what created a happy marriage. Credibility: it was a article published by a .org website

title: 10 Strengths to a happy marriage Author: unknown Date: 2010 Why relevant and summary: I really liked this article it was brief interesting and to the point. It is a reflection on a study conducted on more than 21,000 couples in all the United states and gives 10 easy tips on what to do to improve your marriage and also gives the top 10 reasons that cause problems for a marriage. I think it is an easy piece to read for everyone at every stage of their married life. How it changed my thinking: Most of the tips are common sense that everyone will agree to it but more than often we fail to follow; reading them kind of reinforces their message. Credibility of source: The website "first things first" is a non profit grass roots organization that came to be as a tool to help the residents of Hamilton county , Tennessee. Apparently they have a high divorce rate and other relationship and children rearing issues and this website offers advice, support and education on hoe to deal with family problems on a day to day basis. Dozens of books are written every year about the things that go wrong in marriage. Now one of America's foremost marriage researchers has evaluated the things that go right in marriage. David H. Olson, founder of Life Innovations and one of the creators of the Prepare/Enrich marriage enrichment tools, has surveyed 21,501 married couples in all 50 states to identify the top ten strengths of happy marriages.

Title: Want a happy Marriage? Be nice and Don't nitpick Author: Jeanie Lerche Davis Date Published: No date (reviewed May 30, 2006) Why Relevant and Summary: This article discusses how to make a marriage a successful one. It talks about the basic respect that partners need to show each other. It says that a happy marriage means respecting your spouse. It also discusses healthy ways to resolve conflicts step by step with a spouse. How This Influenced My Thinking: This article made a great point - that true compatibility doesn't exist, so shrug off the little stuff. It says that irreconcilable differences are normal and we shouldn't try to resolve or unresolve but rather come to terms with them and except the differences between you and your partner. I often feel that if you are unhappy because of disagreements that will never be resolved -then you should leave. But the point that we should just except these disagreements and cherish the stronger aspects of a relationship has changed my thinking on this. Credibility of Source: Credible- it is on WebMD.com and was reviewed by an MD and has reliable sources cited.

author: Jonathan Montgomery Date: 03-28-2011 title: Teaching Cultural Intelligence Could Provide Advantages In Job Market Why relevant and summary: Cultural intelligence is another aspect of intelligence that we discussed in the class which is worth pursuing and very valuable to us. Especially in this global market where we trade with partners from all over the world, having an understanding of their culture and background better prepares us to make sound decisions. For those who study abroad gives them a great advantage to thrive and not feel outcasted and socially neglected. How this has influenced my thinking: I was not aware that CI was being studied and promoted and I think it is a great idea for our children to develop. Credibility: This article was published on The Huffington Post which is a pretty reliable online newspaper.

Title: Emerging Adults : The In-Between Age Author: Christopher Munsey Date Published: June 2006\ Why relevant and summary: This goes in depth about emerging adulthood and identity. it gives features of emerging adulthood and its ties with finding identity. it also references to cultures and their achievement of identity and how they can be different from others. Identity can come from what your community requires of you, or something else. How this influenced my thinking: this reinforced my ideas on emerging adulthood being a stage of unsure identity for some if not most. Credibility: American Psychological Association

Title: Menopause - Treatment & Drugs Author: Mayo Clinic Staff Date Published: Jan. 24, 2013 Why Relevant & Summary: Explains in detail the various treatments for the effects of Menopause. They include hormone therapy, vaginal estrogen, low-dose antidepressants, gabapentin, and medications to prevent or treat osteoporosis. How This Influenced My Thinking: Learned about the various treatments for Menopause. Credibility of Source: Very credible, Mayo Clinic

Title-Ten things every college student should know Author-Hannah Purnell Date-n.d. Why relevant and summary-It shows some examples of norms that college students have. How this influenced my thinking-This just showed me some helpful tips for college. Credibility-It seems credible because it is written by a staff member from college.

Title: Build a Stronger Marriage by Setting Relationship Goals Author: By Richard Nicastro, Ph.D. Date of Publication: ND Why Relevant and Summary: This article gives a great breakdown of steps to take to build a strong, happy, healthy marriage. It also gives things that you should avoid. How This Influenced My Thinking: It didn't, however it did give me great tips that I will use in my marriage. Credibility: Everything seems logical when you read it, written by PhD.

Title: Violent Video Games Are a Risk Factor for Criminal Behavior and Aggression Author: Matt Delisi, Craig Anderson, Douglas Gentile, Angie Hunt Date: March 26, 2013 Why relevant and summary: I'll be discussing whether or not violent video games should be banned in this critical thinking assignment, and this is a study that supports my view that violent video games should be banned. How this influenced my thinking: It reinforced what I believe: violent media should be restricted. Violent video games should be banned. Parents need to take responsibility for what they are letting their kids interact with. Did excessive playing of violent video games cause Adam Lanza to massacre 26 innocent souls? It was definitely a significant factor, coupled with serious mental health problems. This article encouraged me to also see that there may be a middle ground between banning the games and free access. Maybe some educational resources for parents need to be made publicly available and easily accessible, so that they have the tools they need to discourage/disallow violent media in the home.

Title: Cultural Intelligence - What's your CQ? Date Published: October 30, 2009 Author: John Abele Why Relevant and Summary: This is relevant because it talks about the intelligence as a culture. It is also known as Cultural Intelligence, this blog post gives a scenario about the cultural Intelligence and how difficult it is for some people to adapt to change. How This influenced My thinking: it made me realize that not every culture is able to adapt to the intelligence of others because they hold such a high standard of living and can simply not adapt to the environment that was thrown at them. Credibility: It was posted by the Co-Founder Boston Scientific Corporation and Owner, Kingbridge Conference Centre and Institute

Title : Girls are more intelligent than boys, but men are more intelligent than women. Author : Satoshi Kanazawa Date : 10/03/2010 Why Relevant and Summary: It's relevant because in my paper, I discuss the debate of age difference in relationships. This article provides support in the maturation of girls and boys and why some people prefer the age difference and why some people may not. How This Influenced My Thinking It helps my thinking to understand where my husband and I are at in our marriage to where we were when we dated in high school. I was more mature than he was, but now he has matured and to be more intelligent than I am but we are equally mature enough. We are also 3 days apart in age.

Title: Intellectual, Psychosocial and Moral Development in College: Four Major Theories Author: Joanne Kurfiss Date Published: 1983 Why Relevant and Summary: This is an excerpt from a book that gives a great break down in William Perry's reflective judgement theory How This Influenced My Thinking: It gave me a detailled description of each stage of thinking, particularly a great explanation of relativism and relativism/ commitment Credibility of Source: high

Title: Intelligence across cultures Research in Africa, Asia and Latin America is showing how culture and intelligence interact Author: Etienne Benson Date Published: February 2003 Why Relevant and Summary: Covers great studies and clearly explains findings How This Influenced My Thinking: Confirmed what I believe about measuring intelligence Credibility of Source: Extremely

Title: Intelligence across cultures Author: Etienne Benson Date Published: Feb 2003 Why Relevant and Summary: This site is relevant because it opened my eyes and allowed me to see what different cultures definition of intelligence is, as well as what they value as intelligence. How This Influenced My Thinking: This influenced my thinking by providing me with insight on how other cultures operate and what they feel is important. It was interesting to compare and contrast what we in the US value as intelligence with what other cultures value. Credibility of Source: very credible

Title: Intelligence Across Cultures Author: ETIENNE BENSON Date Published: 2003 Why Relevant & Summary: This article explores how intelligence is perceived differently across different cultures. How this influenced my thinking: This gave real world examples of intelligences worldwide Credibility of Source: 6/ American Psychological Association