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Title:10 Strengths To Make A Happy Marriage Author: firstthings.org Date Published: 2010 Why relevant and summary: this webpage discusses the strengths needed to create a successful marriage. The author discusses their finding after having researched what makes a happy marriage; clear communication, flexibility, and other characteristic of the marriage are what creates the happiness. How This Influenced My Thinking: For the most part it didn't. It reinforced what Ii already what created a happy marriage. Credibility: it was a article published by a .org website

title: 10 Strengths to a happy marriage Author: unknown Date: 2010 Why relevant and summary: I really liked this article it was brief interesting and to the point. It is a reflection on a study conducted on more than 21,000 couples in all the United states and gives 10 easy tips on what to do to improve your marriage and also gives the top 10 reasons that cause problems for a marriage. I think it is an easy piece to read for everyone at every stage of their married life. How it changed my thinking: Most of the tips are common sense that everyone will agree to it but more than often we fail to follow; reading them kind of reinforces their message. Credibility of source: The website "first things first" is a non profit grass roots organization that came to be as a tool to help the residents of Hamilton county , Tennessee. Apparently they have a high divorce rate and other relationship and children rearing issues and this website offers advice, support and education on hoe to deal with family problems on a day to day basis. Dozens of books are written every year about the things that go wrong in marriage. Now one of America's foremost marriage researchers has evaluated the things that go right in marriage. David H. Olson, founder of Life Innovations and one of the creators of the Prepare/Enrich marriage enrichment tools, has surveyed 21,501 married couples in all 50 states to identify the top ten strengths of happy marriages.

Title: 7 Tips for a Successful Marriage Author: Tim Dowling Date: 8 February 2013 Why relevant and summary: This article provides seven solid tips for maintaining a healthy and successful marriage. For example, Dowling says, "go to bed angry if you want to" because you're better off getting a good night's sleep before tackling the conflict again. Another good tip is to remember that every relationship is unique and it is damaging to compare yours to other relationships. I think the other gives some pretty solid, yet basic marriage advice that couples considering marriage should read. How this influenced my thinking: I have been married and divorced, and am in another relationship that is progressing toward marriage. I hope to avoid the mistakes made in my first marriage, so articles like this one apply directly to my personal life. However, no matter how good the advice is, you've got to make sure you're marrying someone you can absolutely be with through thick and thin. This type of advice is for couples that are certain that they are marrying someone they are truly compatible with long-term. Credibility of source: decent. Guardian (UK) article.

Title: 7 Tips for a Successful Marriage Author: Tim Dowling Date: 8 February 2013 Why relevant and summary: This article provides seven tips for maintaining a healthy and successful marriage. How this influenced my thinking: Even though I'm not married I will keep these tips in mind when I do get married Credibility of source: Decent. Guardian (UK) article.

Title: Want a happy Marriage? Be nice and Don't nitpick Author: Jeanie Lerche Davis Date Published: No date (reviewed May 30, 2006) Why Relevant and Summary: This article discusses how to make a marriage a successful one. It talks about the basic respect that partners need to show each other. It says that a happy marriage means respecting your spouse. It also discusses healthy ways to resolve conflicts step by step with a spouse. How This Influenced My Thinking: This article made a great point - that true compatibility doesn't exist, so shrug off the little stuff. It says that irreconcilable differences are normal and we shouldn't try to resolve or unresolve but rather come to terms with them and except the differences between you and your partner. I often feel that if you are unhappy because of disagreements that will never be resolved -then you should leave. But the point that we should just except these disagreements and cherish the stronger aspects of a relationship has changed my thinking on this. Credibility of Source: Credible- it is on WebMD.com and was reviewed by an MD and has reliable sources cited.

Title: Creating a Strong and Satisfying Marriage Author: Janet A Clark, Sharon J Leigh Date Published: May 2000 Why Relevant and Summary: It discusses the characteristics needed for a happy and satisfying marriage, how to attain those, common areas of conflict, the importance of managing conflict, tips on how to resolve those conflicts, and tips on how to keep a marriage happy and healthy How This Influenced My Thinking: It was very informative, I thought it had some very good points. Most of it is common sense but it really puts it in perspective and lays it out for you Credibility of Source: Seems pretty credible

Title: Communication Exercises for Couples Author: Deepa Kartha Date Published: 2012 Why Relevant and Summary: goes over some good exercises that couples can go over to improve their relationship in a marriage or relationship How This Influenced My Thinking: made me think about some good ways to communicate with people more effectively. Credibility of Source: I don't know that it is super credible, but I think that the advice is solid.

Title: The Importance of Goodwill in Couple Communication Skills Author: Nathan Cobb Date Published: 2006 Why Relevant and Summary: It's relevant because in my opinion communication is a very important part of a successful relationship. How This Influenced My Thinking: This article helped back my opinion by discussing with detail how important communication is within relationships and how it could benefit the relationship. Credibility of Source: Seems credible

Title: Premarital Course for Florida Author: Dawn Lipthrott Date Published: 2012 Why Relevent and Summary: A list of course content How This Influenced My Thinking: Having never been married myself, I had no idea what a premarital class entailed. This was a helpful list of class content. Credibility of Source: Written and conducted by a licensed social worker