40 Day Challenge - Day 7 - 4 views
Appreciation vs. Depreciation This one is simple in its concept - believe the best about others. I love the quote by Alice Herz-Sommer, "I know about the bad, but I look at the good." This is fro...
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Appreciation vs. Depreciation This one is simple in its concept - believe the best about others. I love the quote by Alice Herz-Sommer, "I know about the bad, but I look at the good." This is fro...
Today's challenge is about jealousy. The root word of jealous is zeal - meaning to "burn with intense fire". We're talking about illegitimate jealousy in this challenge. The kind that causes you ...
Gail, it was definitely not you!! :)
Unconditional I am sure that your other person has some great qualities - but let's think about something. What if some or all of those good qualities disappeared? If the reasons you are doing ...
Go Gail, Go!
Excellent - glad to hear it!
Conflict & Fighting Fair Whether we like it or not conflict in relationships is going to happen. When we are in relationship with one another we are not only in relationship with their strengths,...
Decide to be delighted! Yes, that right. Just decide to be delighted with your other person. Lead your heart and your mind in the direction you want to go. Put the critical mind, so focused on ...
Honor To honor someone means to give them respect and high esteem, to treat them as being special and of great worth. When you speak to them, you choose your words carefully. When they speak to ...
You cannot change your other person. As much as you may want to, you cannot play God and reach into their heart and mold them into what you want them to be. But isn't that what we spend a large p...
Vulnerability Okay, this may be a tough one. But I think we see the truth of this demonstrated time and again. How vulnerable have you been with your other person? And how safe have you made the...
Understanding We all enjoy discovering as much as we can about the things we truly care about. Whether it is cooking, fine dining, our favorite sports teams or the latest health craze; we seem to...
Impossibility Much of what we have attempted to do so far may sometimes feel like it falls into the category of the impossible. "There is no way that I can reconcile with him!" or "I can't bring ...
I need to print this out and read it as a reminder every day!
Let's talk about irritability! When you see another as a person you do not give offense and you are quick to forgive. People who are irritable are locked, loaded and ready to overreact. There ar...
Gail - let us know how it goes.
1. This is the hardest to keep up on. 2. Unknown. Although I thought a lot about it. I have no answer for how to maintain this as a routine. I've been able to do it for periods of time in the past,...
Maturity begins when we're content to feel we're right about something without feeling the necessity to prove someone else wrong. (Sydney Harris)
Sincere forgiveness isn't colored with expectations that the other person apologize or change. Don't worry whether or not they finally understand you. Love them and release them. Life feeds back tr...
Regard your neighbor's gain as your own gain, and your neighbor's loss as your own loss. (T'ai Shag Kan Ying P'ien)