The Enemy - 2 views
Your enemy is never a villain in his own eyes. Keep this in mind; it may offer a way to make him your friend. (Robert A. Heinlein)
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Your enemy is never a villain in his own eyes. Keep this in mind; it may offer a way to make him your friend. (Robert A. Heinlein)
I believe that the first test of a great person is humility. I don't mean by humility, doubt of one's own power. But really great people have a curious feeling that the greatness is not of them, bu...
We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are. (Anaïs Nin)
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I need to print this out and read it as a reminder every day!
Impossibility Much of what we have attempted to do so far may sometimes feel like it falls into the category of the impossible. "There is no way that I can reconcile with him!" or "I can't bring ...
Understanding We all enjoy discovering as much as we can about the things we truly care about. Whether it is cooking, fine dining, our favorite sports teams or the latest health craze; we seem to...
Vulnerability Okay, this may be a tough one. But I think we see the truth of this demonstrated time and again. How vulnerable have you been with your other person? And how safe have you made the...
You cannot change your other person. As much as you may want to, you cannot play God and reach into their heart and mold them into what you want them to be. But isn't that what we spend a large p...
Honor To honor someone means to give them respect and high esteem, to treat them as being special and of great worth. When you speak to them, you choose your words carefully. When they speak to ...
Decide to be delighted! Yes, that right. Just decide to be delighted with your other person. Lead your heart and your mind in the direction you want to go. Put the critical mind, so focused on ...
Conflict & Fighting Fair Whether we like it or not conflict in relationships is going to happen. When we are in relationship with one another we are not only in relationship with their strengths,...
Faithfulness Okay - this is an unusual word to use in a business setting. But the question for today is, how faithful are you to this process of taking responsibility, being more collaborative an...
Protection Think about your other person for a moment. Think about your relationship with your other person. Is there anything that you are allowing to attack and/or poison that relationship? H...
Accountability Everyone needs wise counsel throughout life. Wise people constantly seek it and gladly receive it. Fools never ask for it and then ignore it when it's given to them. It is crucial...
Applause When you see your other person growing in character, exhibiting behavior that is exemplary, persevering through difficulties, embracing service to others, exhibiting humility - it's time ...
Completing It's almost a cliche to say that we are all made differently. Different temperaments, different bodies, different personalities, different life experiences, etc. Often, we see these d...