Tweddle Group Outward Mindset

Are others fully real to us? "What I regret most in my life are failures of kindness. Those moments when another human was there, in front of me, suffering, and I responded reservedly." (George Sa...

started by Joe Bennett on 22 Aug 13 no follow-up yet

"Forgoing the taking of offense is an achievement of the one who forgoes; he or she extends it to all, including those nearest by. It cannot depend upon what others do, or else it is not genuine f...

started by Joe Bennett on 21 Aug 13 no follow-up yet

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Wow! Gandhi- Management Guru! Excellent!!!

started by Joe Bennett on 19 Aug 13 1 follow-up, last by Brian Suszek on 19 Aug 13

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We invite from others what we ourselves are. This is our influence. Blame provokes blame. Generosity invites generosity." (The Arbinger Institute)

started by Joe Bennett on 19 Aug 13 no follow-up yet

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I agree this is both profound and a challenge. I love this one!

started by Joe Bennett on 20 Aug 13 3 follow-ups, last by Cassie Roth on 21 Aug 13

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"From within the box, passions, beliefs, and personal needs seem to divide us. When we get out of the box, however, we learn that this has been a lie. Our passions, beliefs, and needs do not divi...

started by Joe Bennett on 16 Aug 13 no follow-up yet

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I really like the way this was stated.

started by Joe Bennett on 15 Aug 13 1 follow-up, last by Cassie Roth on 15 Aug 13

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From The Anatomy of Peace -Yusuf's words to the parents at the end of their time together: "I appreciate the time and effort you have devoted to this. You have been pondering your lives in bold wa...

started by Joe Bennett on 15 Aug 13 no follow-up yet

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Continuing yesterday's post on Culture of Change: "The virtue of the pyramid is that it reminds us of the essential foundation - change in ourselves - while also revealing a behavioral strategy for...

started by Joe Bennett on 14 Aug 13 no follow-up yet

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"A culture of change can never be created by behavioral strategy alone. Peace - whether at home, work, or between peoples - is invited only when an intelligent outward strategy is married to a pea...

started by Joe Bennett on 13 Aug 13 no follow-up yet

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Agreed! Beautiful in its simplicity!

started by Joe Bennett on 12 Aug 13 1 follow-up, last by Brian Suszek on 12 Aug 13

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"I was excited when I first encountered Arbinger", said Chip Huth, SWAT Squad 1910 Sergeant, "because I thought I finally understood what was wrong with everybody else - why everyone was such a pro...

started by Joe Bennett on 12 Aug 13 no follow-up yet

Me too!

started by Joe Bennett on 08 Aug 13 1 follow-up, last by Brian Suszek on 08 Aug 13

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"The learning level of the pyramid keeps inviting us toward humility. It reminds us that the person or group we wish would change may not be the only one who needs to change! It continually invit...

started by Joe Bennett on 09 Aug 13 no follow-up yet

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From The Anatomy of Peace, "But how about ohter kinds of conflicts, conflicts with more history to them, for example, or conflicts between many people. A single heart at peace won't necessarily so...

started by Joe Bennett on 08 Aug 13 no follow-up yet

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From the Anatomy of Peace, Lou asks if the wars around us will be solved by simply finding peace within. "That depends on the nature of the conflict. In conflicts simply between you and another...

started by Joe Bennett on 07 Aug 13 no follow-up yet

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"And notice, it is not just the sense of what to do but the desire to do it that's at issue. That desire has to come from within. When we have recovered those sensibilities toward others, we must...

started by Joe Bennett on 01 Aug 13 no follow-up yet

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Without the action, finding an out-of-the-box place is useless. From the Anatomy of Peace, "I think it was your father's way of reminding himself that although he could get out of the box by fin...

started by Joe Bennett on 30 Jul 13 no follow-up yet

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"We are free to choose our view of the world. "Loving people live in a loving world. Hostile people live in a hostile world." (Dyer)

started by Joe Bennett on 31 Jul 13 no follow-up yet

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Excellent!

started by Joe Bennett on 31 Jul 13 1 follow-up, last by Brian Suszek on 03 Aug 13

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