This is our learning organization tribe for those of us who want to pursue the Arbinger Outward Mindset principles and behaviors
Thank you George - nice work. I agree, remember is hard. I use all sorts of simple electronic tools to remind me to do these little things.
started by Joe Bennett on 05 Aug 14
2 follow-ups, last by Joe Bennett on 08 Aug 14
Excellent work - Doug and Beverly. Keep going; I am looking forward to your progress!
started by Joe Bennett on 04 Aug 14
3 follow-ups, last by Joe Bennett on 06 Aug 14
In preparation for Monday, let's do the following: 1. Bring to mind somebody you are currently In-the-Box with. Somebody who is difficult for you to be with. Somebody you are seeing as an object....
Thank you everybody for taking this on! We will of course, be patient with those who can't check-in everyday.
Help me learn to despise that crooked self-satisfaction that comes from judging others. (Anonymous)
One person can give offense only if the other will take offense... We only *appear* to control one another; in truth, we give control of ourselves to others by allowing them to offend or otherwise ...
Try this for one day: No self-pity, no blame, no excuses.
Any degree of doubt about whether we are right shows at least the beginnings of an earnest desire to reconsider our ways. Such honest concern lets a little light enter our minds, and in that light ...
"Socrates: This man, on one hand, believes that he knows something, while not knowing [anything]. On the other hand, I - equally ignorant - do not believe [that I know anything]." ― Plato, Apology ...
Regard your neighbor's gain as your own gain, and your neighbor's loss as your own loss. (T'ai Shag Kan Ying P'ien)
Sincere forgiveness isn't colored with expectations that the other person apologize or change. Don't worry whether or not they finally understand you. Love them and release them. Life feeds back tr...
Maturity begins when we're content to feel we're right about something without feeling the necessity to prove someone else wrong. (Sydney Harris)
Become a responsive person. Be influenced by the reality of other people. The rest will be wonderful. You do not do it conditionally -- not to try to change others -- you do it because you love, un...
Service is the measure of greatness; it always has been true; it is true today, and it always will be true. Nearly all of our controversies and combats grow out of the fact that we are trying to ge...
We begin to get out of our own & each other's way in the very moment we open ourselves to each other's humanity.
Our freedom lies deeper than we imagine. Not only do we choose our response to people and conditions in our lives, we choose how we see them in the first place. (The Choice, Arbinger)
Love it - thanks Gail!
started by Mingaile Taber on 26 Jun 14
1 follow-up, last by Joe Bennett on 27 Jun 14
When the natural weakness and imperfection of human understanding is considered, with the unavoidable influences of education, custom, books and company, upon our ways of thinking, I imagine a pers...
