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The most effective team leaders are servants first… they put others before themselves… they are not too important to do the unpopular jobs… they are the first to volunteer… others know they can tru...
This is our learning organization tribe for those of us who want to pursue the Arbinger Outward Mindset principles and behaviors
The most effective team leaders are servants first… they put others before themselves… they are not too important to do the unpopular jobs… they are the first to volunteer… others know they can tru...
When we betray ourselves and shift responsibility onto others by means of our accusing thoughts and feelings, we believe it is their mistreatment of us that leads us to accuse them. This is the sel...
Our true feelings always "leak". No doubt about it.
Here's a thought from Leadership and Self Deception on what creates long-term success for a company: "I'm not minimizing the importance of, for example, getting smart and skilled people into the co...
"...there are two ways to be hard. I can engage in hard behaviors and be either in the box or out of the box when I do them. The distinction isn't behavior. It's the way I'm being when I am doin...
Here are my answers - what about you? Incredibly productive, peaceful and liberating!
All that we can do is give others a safe place and live our best selves.
"We jump forward willingly, even when what is required seems difficult physically or mentally or even financially. Such willingness expresses our innately considerate and generous nature. When ou...
Here are some interesting thoughts about perfectionism and self-betrayal: "Perfectionism seems obsessed with the task itself, whether or not people can see it being done. Perfectionists seem more...
"Giving up the charade of our own innocence is the true spirit of restitution and the pathway to reconciliation." (Jim Ferrell)
"Never,never be afraid to do what's right, especially if the well-being of a person ... is at stake. Society's punishments are small compared to the wounds we inflict on our soul when we look the ...
"A great and curious truth of the human experience is that selflessness is the best thing you can do for yourself." (David McCollough Jr.)
"Blaming oneself can work as an excuse just as well as blaming someone else." (Bonds That Make Us Free)
"Your assumptions are your windows on the world. Scrub them off every once in a while, or the light won't come in." (Isaac Asimov)
OK, I will!
"The more you know, the more you know you don't know."- Aristotle He was no dummy.
When others respond poorly, or in a way that we don't like; we begin thinking about how they are a problem for us. We both may benefit if we began wondering, instead, how I am a problem for them. ...
Fantastic! Spot on and thought provoking! I love it!!!
Well said Anne!
"The world is a looking glass, and gives back to every man the reflection of his own face." (William Makepeace Thackeray)