How Am I A Problem For Others - 3 views

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  #1 Joe Bennett on 16 Jul 13

   

  When others respond poorly, or in a way that we don't like; we begin thinking about how they are a problem for us. We both may benefit if we began wondering, instead, how I am a problem for them.
  
  This happened the other day to me. We got out of the cycle of poor responses by diagramming it with the collusion boxes. We each began to see how we inviting the very responses we each said we hated. We've move to higher ground!

   

  <div class="cArrow"> </div><div class="cContentInner">When others respond poorly, or in a way that we don't like; we begin thinking about how they are a problem for us. We both may benefit if we began wondering, instead, how I am a problem for them. <br /> <br /> This happened the other day to me. We got out of the cycle of poor responses by diagramming it with the collusion boxes. We each began to see how we inviting the very responses we each said we hated. We've move to higher ground!</div>

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