A Best Place to Work - Recap of The Arbinger Institute Webinar - 1 views
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Reflecting on the personal impact of the material, Zeck comments, "I am much more aware of my role in relationships, my role in these dealings with other people, my role in collusions I had with other people. [Over time] it became much more difficult to pretend that I wasn't responsible, and that I didn't have accountability and that I wasn't playing a significant role in those relationships like I had in the past. I could always find ways to blame other people, I could always find ways to excuse my behavior, excuse the way I was relating to other people and drat-the Arbinger material has taken all of that away from me! I can no longer do that in good conscience."
What it takes to be a great leader - 4 views
the arbinger institute - Facebook Search - 3 views
Helpfulness Isn't a Formula - An Excerpt From The Outward Mindset - 1 views
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A long-time colleague of ours, Terry Olson, tells of the following experience that began in a workshop he was conducting for public-school teachers. They were using a room at a lockdown educational facility for elementary-aged children with severe behavioral problems. Some of the teachers from that school were eavesdropping at the back of the room.
The Inward Mindset Pattern - 1 views
"Individuals and organizations that are operating with an inward mindset act in what we call an Inside-Outside-In way. By this, we mean that they first think about the results they want to achieve...
Outside-Inside-Out - 2 views
Individuals and organizations operating with an outward mindset first focus on the outside triangle objectives of those they have obligations toward (Outside). Then they reconsider their own insi...
40 Day Challenge - Day 33 - 3 views
Dreams What is something your other person would really, really love? Common sense tells us that we may not be able to fulfill every one of their dreams due to time or budget constraints. But ho...
Are People Real To Us? - 2 views
Are others fully real to us? "What I regret most in my life are failures of kindness. Those moments when another human was there, in front of me, suffering, and I responded reservedly." (George Sa...
Clever People - 5 views
Me too!
started by Joe Bennett on 08 Aug 13
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A War with History - 4 views
From The Anatomy of Peace, "But how about ohter kinds of conflicts, conflicts with more history to them, for example, or conflicts between many people. A single heart at peace won't necessarily so...
Self Improvement Tips - Behavior and Habit Examination - Marie Claire - 2 views
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Amy Simonelli sent me this article. Great thoughts on why we are so self deceived. "According to social psychologists, there's another, even deeper reason: Humans are programmed to see others more clearly than they see themselves-a phenomenon called actor/observer differences. "We read situations differently depending on whether we are the actor or the person watching," says Heidi Grant Halvorson, a motivational scientist at Columbia University Business School, who writes the blog The Science of Success. While others can clearly see that you frequently interrupt conversations or get red-faced and sweaty arguing a point, it's easier for you to ignore or rationalize your behavior, Grant Halvorson says. "You have access to so much information that others don't, like your past experiences, your beliefs about your own abilities, your fears and insecurities. All that extra data affects your interpretation of what you do-so self-defeating behaviors make more sense and seem more reasonable to you."
But What About the Wars Around Us? - 2 views
From the Anatomy of Peace, Lou asks if the wars around us will be solved by simply finding peace within. "That depends on the nature of the conflict. In conflicts simply between you and another...
Staying Out Of The Box - 2 views
"And notice, it is not just the sense of what to do but the desire to do it that's at issue. That desire has to come from within. When we have recovered those sensibilities toward others, we must...
Freedom - 1 views
"We are free to choose our view of the world. "Loving people live in a loving world. Hostile people live in a hostile world." (Dyer)
The Choice - 4 views
Excellent!
started by Joe Bennett on 31 Jul 13
1 follow-up, last by Brian Suszek on 03 Aug 13
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Action - 5 views
Without the action, finding an out-of-the-box place is useless. From the Anatomy of Peace, "I think it was your father's way of reminding himself that although he could get out of the box by fin...
When You Get Stuck - 3 views
"Each time you find you're getting stuck, whether at work or in your family, you'll again have to find an out-of-the-box place just as we have found one together here, and then you'll have to get ...
The Influence Pyramid - 2 views
"The learning level of the pyramid keeps inviting us toward humility. It reminds us that the person or group we wish would change may not be the only one who needs to change! It continually invit...
Peace - 4 views
Agreed! Beautiful in its simplicity!
started by Joe Bennett on 12 Aug 13
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