2 ways to love your job more in 30 seconds. - 2 views
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Kristine Kehrig on 01 Feb 17...choose your attitude and adjust your expectations.
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The 8 Most Damaging Ways People Let Themselves Down Every Day - 5 views
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Great article! Thank you! Last paragraph is very powerful: Find someone who can be a mentor or accountability partner to help you see the future vision of you before it's "hatched." As Einstein said, "We can't solve a problem on the level of consciousness that created it." Shift your consciousness by getting empowering and uplifting help from someone who believes in you and won't let you take "no" for answer about your own life.
Is Patience Weakness? - 9 views
How many of us have felt the negative effects of the lack of patience in our daily lives? I know I do, both from my own lack of patience as well as from others. Patience allows time to either make...
Seeing Other As People Means .... - 3 views
To see others as people is to feel responsible for any wrongs of our own, however small... If we want others to take responsibility for their actions, we invite that only by our taking responsibili...
Forgiveness - 3 views
You will know that forgiveness has begun when you recall those who hurt you and feel the power to wish them well. (Lewis B. Smedes)
In The Box? - 1 views
Here's a question for the group: What are the red flags of your awareness that you're "In-the-box"? Here are some of mine: 1. I feel victimized 2. I procrastinate 3. reclusive, avoid interaction ...
Then What? - 4 views
Okay so let's assume that you've now discovered an out-of-the box place. What do you do then? Perhaps you begin to think about the situation differently by asking yourself a series of questions: ...
Society - 11 views
Actions speak louder than words. So true!
They Are Out of Control! - 5 views
I've heard this language recently when speaking of customers. I've colluded with those who spoke those words - I've "piled on" their bandwagon. Red flags are now going up for me. I've gained an ...
Evaluating My Way of Being - 3 views
Who wouldn't say this is true? "Others feel genuine respect and concern from me. They sense that my concern is to help them, not to prove something about myself." In order to help things go righ...
Judging - 1 views
"If you feel you can judge the arrogant, it's a sign you are far from humbleness." (Toba Beta)
Justification & Freedom - 5 views
Often times, recognizing justification in ourselves can begin to free us from the trouble it creates. Self-Justification can be seen once we know what to look for: Are we blaming? Playing the victi...
Self-Betrayal - 4 views
When we betray ourselves and shift responsibility onto others by means of our accusing thoughts and feelings, we believe it is their mistreatment of us that leads us to accuse them. This is the sel...
Caring - 4 views
So, if this were indeed my final hour, these would be my words to you. I would not claim to pass on any secret of life... or any wisdom except the passionate plea of caring... Try to feel, in your ...
Simon Sinek: Why good leaders make you feel safe | Talk Video | TED.com - 2 views
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I am posting this in the Leadership & Self-Deception group because I think it beautifully expresses the spirit of the Arbinger teachings.
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Incredible video!! Outstanding definition of leadership. I am reminded of something one of my favorite leaders used to say. "People don't follow titles. People follow people". Thank you for sharing this Joe.
40 Day Challenge - Day 32 - 6 views
You're welcome!
40 Day Challenge - Day 25 - 5 views
Encouragement The higher your expectations, the more likely your other person will fail you and cause you frustration. But if you are realistic enough to understand that your other person is huma...
Self-deception - 2 views
In the horrifying calculus of self-deception, the greater the pain we inflict on others, the greater the need to justify it to maintain our feelings of decency and self-worth. [Carol Tavris, Mista...
Evaluating My Listening & Learning - 3 views
Using ruthless self-honesty ask yourself this question today - "Do others feel free to talk to me about their challenges, realities, and ideas, including how I am a problem for them, knowing that I...
Baggage Free Communication - The Arbinger Institute - 4 views
The way people communicate is always an outgrowth of their deepest attitude, or way of being, toward each other. When people are essentially self-concerned-when they are defensive, resistant, or in...
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