Okay so let's assume that you've now discovered an out-of-the box place. What do you do then? Perhaps you begin to think about the situation differently by asking yourself a series of questions:
1. What are this person's or people's challenges, trials, burdens, and pains? 2. How am I, or some group of which I am a part, adding to these challenges, trials, burdens or pains? 3. In what other ways have I or my group neglected or mistreated this person or group? 4. In what ways are my better-than, I-deserve, worse-than, and must-be-seen-as boxes obscuring the truth about others and myself and interfering with potential solutions? 5. What am I feeling I should do for this person or group? What could I do to help?
1. What are this person's or people's challenges, trials, burdens, and pains?
2. How am I, or some group of which I am a part, adding to these challenges, trials, burdens or pains?
3. In what other ways have I or my group neglected or mistreated this person or group?
4. In what ways are my better-than, I-deserve, worse-than, and must-be-seen-as boxes obscuring the truth about others and myself and interfering with potential solutions?
5. What am I feeling I should do for this person or group? What could I do to help?
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