Tweddle Group Outward Mindset

We all have the same problem.

started by Joe Bennett on 31 May 13 1 follow-up, last by Brian Suszek on 31 May 13

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Challenging and beautiful!

started by Joe Bennett on 29 May 13 1 follow-up, last by Brian Suszek on 29 May 13

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"The more we can find our way to the out-of-the-box vantage points within us, the more readily we will be able to shine the light on the in-the-box justifications we are carrying." (Leadership & Se...

started by Joe Bennett on 28 May 13 no follow-up yet

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True, true, true...

Leadership

started by Joe Bennett on 23 May 13 1 follow-up, last by Brian Suszek on 23 May 13

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"The question for you as the leader is whether you are going to create an environment that is as enjoyable for your people as it is for you - a place that they are as excited about and devoted to a...

started by Joe Bennett on 22 May 13 no follow-up yet

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"In the moment we cease resisting others, we're out of the box - liberated from self-justifying thoughts and feelings. This is why the way out of the box is always right before our eyes - because ...

started by Joe Bennett on 21 May 13 no follow-up yet

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"Try to see the good in people (especially those with whom we disagree): People who prefer to believe the worst of others will breed war and persecutions while the world lasts" (Dorothy L. Sayers)

started by Joe Bennett on 20 May 13 no follow-up yet

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"Our opinions of the world and others are confessions of our characters." (adapted, Ralph Waldo Emerson)

started by Joe Bennett on 20 May 13 no follow-up yet

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Today see if you can simply see others as people; not as objects who are an obstacle, or a vehicle or as irrelevant. Just people with the same hopes, needs, fears & anxieties you have. Today fo...

started by Joe Bennett on 17 May 13 no follow-up yet

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One of the most common questions I am asked with respect to this material goes something like this, "But what if the other person continues to disrespect me, belittle me, be rude to me? Doesn't th...

started by Joe Bennett on 16 May 13 no follow-up yet

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"When we are caught up in it, we accuse others so as to excuse ourselves, and that makes it a judgmental way of being. We grasp at evidence that others are wrong and we are right, and that makes i...

started by Joe Bennett on 09 May 13 no follow-up yet

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With what I've been learning, this rings very true. The words really bring the point to life. Well stated.

started by Joe Bennett on 15 May 13 3 follow-ups, last by Michael Frink on 16 May 13

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"We can't feel justified in witholding kindness from others unless we find, or invent, some reason why they deserve it - some deficiency or despicable characteristic that requires us to ignore or c...

started by Joe Bennett on 14 May 13 no follow-up yet

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"We seek this diminishment of others and our own elevation not because of any wrongs they many be doing to us. We do it because of the wrongs we are doing to them. Our demeaning, judgmental, and ...

started by Joe Bennett on 13 May 13 no follow-up yet

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1. To take up a hard, resentful attitude toward others is to have to live in a resented world, a world full of people who oppose and threaten us. How they are in our eyes is reflective of how we a...

started by Joe Bennett on 10 May 13 no follow-up yet

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Answer: Do the Collaboration Diagram. What is your impact on others? We now offer an implementation process that can be used once you've had the training.

started by Joe Bennett on 10 May 13 no follow-up yet

Where's your focus: 1. On others impact on you? or 2. Your impact on others? Think in the 4 directions of your work - Customer, Co-worker, Employee & Manager. If we are going to move the needle o...

started by Joe Bennett on 09 May 13 no follow-up yet

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"Don't give up on anybody ... or leave anybody out ... My continuing passion is to part a curtain, that invisible veil of indifference that falls between us and that blinds us to each other's pres...

started by Joe Bennett on 08 May 13 no follow-up yet

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"Sometimes we might be forced to defend ourselves, you're exactly right. But that is a different thing than saying that we are forced to despise, to rage, to denigrate, to belittle. No one can fo...

started by Joe Bennett on 07 May 13 no follow-up yet

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"So if we are going to find lasting solutions to difficult conflicts or external wars we find ourselves in we first need to find our way out of the internal wars that are poisoning our thoughts, fe...

started by Joe Bennett on 06 May 13 no follow-up yet