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Society - 11 views

Actions speak louder than words. So true!

Joe Bennett

Simple, Clean Truth - 8 views

"The simple, clean truth about ourselves has more therapeutic power than any psychological theory ... No self-proclaimed human authority will serve you better than your own straightforward sense of...

started by Joe Bennett on 17 Sep 13 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

An Oldy But Goody! - 2 views

"I always prefer to believe the best of everybody; it saves so much trouble." (Rudyard Kipling)

started by Joe Bennett on 16 Sep 13 no follow-up yet
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Michael Wahl

Nice or Tough: Which Approach Engages Employees Most? - 7 views

shared by Michael Wahl on 12 Sep 13 - No Cached
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    Great article! The key may be to stay out of the box using either approach. Lou was tough!
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    Starting to read the article, you knew what the answer was going to be: Tough & Nice was exponentially more affective than either alone. What's more interesting is Tough alone ranked higher than Nice alone. Yeah...I can see that.
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    It is not surprising, but it is better to read it for what it is. Neither strategy was even marginally effective enough to work on its own merits. I have never met a purely tough leader, but have worked with plenty that overly default in that direction. Similarly, I have never met a purely nice leader, but have worked with plenty that overly default in that direction. It is a difficult balance to strike in leadership, and it is one that cannot be explained in an article.
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    ^^^ Like
Joe Bennett

I am unworthy - 5 views

started by Joe Bennett on 10 Sep 13 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

Happiness - 3 views

"The view that someone else is responsible for my happiness is a symptom of self-deception." (The Arbinger Institute)

started by Joe Bennett on 11 Sep 13 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

The Boxed-in World - 3 views

"The boxed-in world we experience as self-betrayers offers us opportunities to submit in humiliation or to stick up for ourselves defiantly, which are both self-absorbed actions, but it offers us n...

started by Joe Bennett on 11 Sep 13 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

When Do You Really Live? - 3 views

"I know now that people only 'seem' to live when they care only for themselves, and that it is by love for others that they really live." (Leo Tolstoy)

started by Joe Bennett on 28 Aug 13 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

Self Deceived - 3 views

"The majority of men do not think in order to know the truth, but in order to assure themselves that the life which they lead, and which is agreeable and habitual to them, is the one which coincide...

started by Joe Bennett on 09 Sep 13 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

Happy - 2 views

started by Joe Bennett on 06 Sep 13 no follow-up yet
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Joe Bennett

Servants & Freedom - 1 views

"Those who choose to be servants know the most about being free." (Janette Oke)

started by Joe Bennett on 05 Sep 13 no follow-up yet
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Joe Bennett

Speaking of Others - 4 views

"Rather than speaking badly about people and in ways that will produce friction and unrest in their lives, we should practice a purer perception of them, and when we speak of others, speak of their...

started by Joe Bennett on 03 Sep 13 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

A Freer Sky - 3 views

"How much larger your life would be if your self could become smaller in it ... You would break out of this tiny and tawdry theatre in which your own little plot is always being played, and you wou...

started by Joe Bennett on 03 Sep 13 no follow-up yet
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Michael Wahl

The Dip - 2 views

Joe Bennett

Humility - 2 views

"There can be no surer proof of a confirmed pride than a belief that one is sufficiently humble." (C.S. Lewis)

started by Joe Bennett on 30 Aug 13 no follow-up yet
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Joe Bennett

Start Wondering - 2 views

"When others respond poorly, perhaps I worry how they are a problem for me. Consider how we both might benefit if I started wondering how I am a problem for them." (Arbinger Core @ Work)

started by Joe Bennett on 29 Aug 13 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

The Truth That Matters - 1 views

"The truth that matters is not that others have mistreated me - perhaps they have ... The truth that matters is that I have mistreated others." (C. Terry Warner)

started by Joe Bennett on 27 Aug 13 no follow-up yet
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Brian Suszek

Blindness - 3 views

Under those circumstances, you would appreciate those that had the bravery to help you find those faults, and you wouldn't squander their courage with inaction.

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