Our Wounds - 2 views
The deepest wounds aren't usually the ones we get from other people hurting us. They are the wounds we give ourselves when we hurt other people. (adapted, Isobelle Carmody)
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The deepest wounds aren't usually the ones we get from other people hurting us. They are the wounds we give ourselves when we hurt other people. (adapted, Isobelle Carmody)
Of the Seven Deadly Sins, anger is possibly the most fun. To lick your wounds, to smack your lips over grievances long past, to roll over your tongue the prospect of bitter confrontations still to ...
Every person must decide whether they will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness. (adapted, Martin Luther King, Jr.)
These are a few ways we can practice humility: To speak as little as possible of one's self. To mind one's own business. Not to want to manage other people's affairs. To accept contradictions and c...
A fantastic reminder! Live for others... So simple, so powerful.
I don't know where being a servant came into disrepute. It is the refuge of a philosopher, the food of the lazy, and, properly carried out, it is a position of power, even of love. (John Steinbeck)
It is an unnecessary burden to make negative judgmental assumptions about others. We are all on a journey. (Steve Maraboli)
Personal change is inherently paradoxical. It cannot be pursued directly, but is a byproduct of something else. I can only change by focusing on others - I cannot change by focusing on myself. (The...
Nearly all of our controversies and combats grow out of the fact that we are trying to get something from each other. There will be peace when our aim is to do something for each other. The true me...
The best way to forgive someone is to enter into their sufferings. (John Geddes)
Walk with me for a while, my friend - you in my shoes, I in yours - and then let us talk. (Richelle E. Goodrich)
"We can change this endless cycle of violence. The only way out is the ability to listen to the pain of the other." (Rami Elhanan, an Israeli who is part of a group of Israelis & Palestinians worki...
Many people today agree that we need to reduce violence in our society. If we are truly serious about this, we must deal with the roots of violence, particularly those that exist within each of us....
To see others as people is to feel responsible for any wrongs of our own, however small... If we want others to take responsibility for their actions, we invite that only by our taking responsibili...
The Arbinger Institute's Jim Ferrell said, "We magnify the worst in each other; we miss some of the problems in ourselves and we drive each other apart." Sometimes the best way to come together is ...
Prejudice of any kind... means you don't see the other human being anymore, but only your own concept of that human being. To reduce the aliveness of another human being to a concept is already a f...
Humankind. Be both.