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Without the action, finding an out-of-the-box place is useless. From the Anatomy of Peace, "I think it was your father's way of reminding himself that although he could get out of the box by fin...
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Without the action, finding an out-of-the-box place is useless. From the Anatomy of Peace, "I think it was your father's way of reminding himself that although he could get out of the box by fin...
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"We are free to choose our view of the world. "Loving people live in a loving world. Hostile people live in a hostile world." (Dyer)
"And notice, it is not just the sense of what to do but the desire to do it that's at issue. That desire has to come from within. When we have recovered those sensibilities toward others, we must...
From the Anatomy of Peace, Lou asks if the wars around us will be solved by simply finding peace within. "That depends on the nature of the conflict. In conflicts simply between you and another...
From The Anatomy of Peace, "But how about ohter kinds of conflicts, conflicts with more history to them, for example, or conflicts between many people. A single heart at peace won't necessarily so...
Me too!
Under those circumstances, you would appreciate those that had the bravery to help you find those faults, and you wouldn't squander their courage with inaction.
Yes, I love Don Rheem's advice to "Rush to Curiosity". It is a tough standard to hold ourselves to, but is incredibly rewarding when we can withhold judgement.
Glinda: For the record, I knew you always had it in you. Oz: Greatness? Glinda: No, something better, Goodness (Oz the Great & Powerful, 2013)
"Always try coercing others proves one doesn't want to change himself." (Toba Beta)
We miss the point when we think that "fixing things" is the answer. The point is to spend most of our time making things go right.
Because we see people as "objects", as an "I-it" rather than an "I-thou". I suppose the culture hasn't adopted those principles because "I" haven't. How many times do I wake up and practice "bein...
"Human greatness does not lie in wealth or power, but in character and goodness. People are just people, and all people have faults and shortcomings, but all of us are born with a basic goodness."...
A quick review: 1. Recognize your Red Flags 2. Find an out of the box space 3. With your new perspective ponder the situation differently 4. Go do the thing you feel led to do for the other person...
"Prejudice ... means we don't see the other human being anymore, but only our own concept of that human being. To reduce the aliveness of another human being to a concept is already a form of viol...