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Joe Bennett

The True Measure of a Life - 5 views

Nearly all of our controversies and combats grow out of the fact that we are trying to get something from each other. There will be peace when our aim is to do something for each other. The true me...

started by Joe Bennett on 10 Mar 14 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

Empathy - 3 views

The best way to forgive someone is to enter into their sufferings. (John Geddes)

started by Joe Bennett on 12 Mar 14 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

Walk With Me - 2 views

Walk with me for a while, my friend - you in my shoes, I in yours - and then let us talk. (Richelle E. Goodrich)

started by Joe Bennett on 07 Mar 14 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

Violence - 3 views

"We can change this endless cycle of violence. The only way out is the ability to listen to the pain of the other." (Rami Elhanan, an Israeli who is part of a group of Israelis & Palestinians worki...

started by Joe Bennett on 21 Feb 14 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

Violence - 3 views

Many people today agree that we need to reduce violence in our society. If we are truly serious about this, we must deal with the roots of violence, particularly those that exist within each of us....

started by Joe Bennett on 05 Mar 14 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

Seeing Other As People Means .... - 3 views

To see others as people is to feel responsible for any wrongs of our own, however small... If we want others to take responsibility for their actions, we invite that only by our taking responsibili...

started by Joe Bennett on 04 Mar 14 no follow-up yet
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Joe Bennett

Magnification - 6 views

The Arbinger Institute's Jim Ferrell said, "We magnify the worst in each other; we miss some of the problems in ourselves and we drive each other apart." Sometimes the best way to come together is ...

started by Joe Bennett on 13 Feb 14 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

Prejudice - 3 views

Prejudice of any kind... means you don't see the other human being anymore, but only your own concept of that human being. To reduce the aliveness of another human being to a concept is already a f...

started by Joe Bennett on 03 Mar 14 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

Human - 4 views

Humankind. Be both.

started by Joe Bennett on 28 Feb 14 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

Happy For Others? - 4 views

Because I was more often happy for other people, I got to spend more time being happy. And as I saw more light in everybody else, I seemed to have more myself. (Victoria Moran)

started by Joe Bennett on 25 Feb 14 no follow-up yet
Michael Frink

Is Patience Weakness? - 9 views

How many of us have felt the negative effects of the lack of patience in our daily lives? I know I do, both from my own lack of patience as well as from others. Patience allows time to either make...

Joe Bennett

Thoughts & Feelings - 4 views

We shouldn't believe everything that our thoughts and feelings are telling us about ourselves and others. In fact, the more our thoughts and feelings keep obsessing on others' faults, for example, ...

started by Joe Bennett on 26 Feb 14 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

Cloudy Lenses - 2 views

The unsympathetic assessments we make of others are usually the result of nothing more sinister than our habit of looking at them in the wrong way, through lenses clouded by distraction, exhaustion...

started by Joe Bennett on 27 Feb 14 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

A Quote from Buddha - 4 views

Resolve to be tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant with the weak and wrong. Sometime in your life, you will have been all of these. (Gauta...

started by Joe Bennett on 19 Feb 14 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

A Victim - 3 views

"But then I recognized, 'I am no longer a victim. It doesn't matter what this man does. My life will not be contingent on what he decides to do.' And suddenly I recognize that I am free." (Robi Dam...

started by Joe Bennett on 13 Feb 14 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

Forgiveness - 1 views

"Forgiveness is making peace with something - or someone - you can not change." (Marina Cantacuzino)

started by Joe Bennett on 18 Feb 14 no follow-up yet
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Joe Bennett

Judgement - 3 views

When we are prone to harshly judge and condemn others, we should inquire how far we fall short ourselves; we should also consider those periods of suffering when we ourselves were perhaps misjudged...

started by Joe Bennett on 17 Feb 14 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

The Correct Focus - 4 views

Don't focus on what others are doing wrong. Do focus on what you can do right to help. Don't worry whether others are helping you. Do worry whether you are helping others. ("Living the material", L...

started by Joe Bennett on 18 Feb 14 no follow-up yet
Joe Bennett

Looking For The Strength - 2 views

It is much more valuable to look for the strength in others. You can gain nothing by criticizing their imperfections... It is impossible to build one's own happiness on the unhappiness of others. (...

started by Joe Bennett on 13 Feb 14 no follow-up yet
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Joe Bennett

Self-deception - 1 views

started by Joe Bennett on 07 Feb 14 no follow-up yet
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