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My view even of myself depends on which way I see others... How others seem to me is a revelation of myself. The self cannot be pried apart from how I see and feel about others. (Bonds That Make Us...
Very fine quote. Here's another, "Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions." Dalai Lama
"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed." ― C.G. Jung
Could you please give an example? This quote is one of those linguistically ambiguous to me. Thank you! :-)
In a public medical group that adopted Arbinger's work, the leadership team was conducting an investigation into a case in which a patient died after he had sought medical consultation more than a ...
We cannot cherish others while judging and criticizing them.
Whenever we are inclined to insist, "I'm right and you're wrong!" we are probably wrong... When we are not willing to consider being wrong, our search for what is right is not completely sincere. (...
This reminds me of the statement I read a long time ago that went something like this, "Never give others the power to control your emotions. If you require others to make you happy, then they have...
Most people believe the mind to be a mirror, more or less accurately reflecting the world outside them, not realizing on the contrary that the mind is itself the principal element of creation. (Rab...
Foolishness is more than not knowing; it's that deadly combination of arrogance and ignorance. (adapted, Paul Tripp)
It is a problem to insist that others need to change while being unwilling to consider how I, myself, might need to change too. (The Anatomy of Peace)
Being curious and learning about the people in our lives helps remind us that we might be mistaken in our views and opinions of them; perhaps a strategy I've taken with a child is hurtful, perhaps ...
Control will sometimes coerce compliance but it will never win allegiance and commitment. When the methods by which we try to change people represent more efforts to control them, these methods ult...
"When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are." ― Donald Miller
If you try to dominate people, you're already defeated. (Terry Dobson)
My own contempt for others is the most debilitating pain of all, for when I am in the middle of it -- when I'm seeing resentfully and disdainfully -- I condemn myself to living in a disdained, rese...
