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How easy it is to blind ourselves to our own wrongdoing by pointing to the wrongdoing of others. (C. Terry Warner, Bonds That Make Us Free)
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How easy it is to blind ourselves to our own wrongdoing by pointing to the wrongdoing of others. (C. Terry Warner, Bonds That Make Us Free)
The happiest people I know are people who don't even think about being happy. They just think about being good neighbors, good people. And then happiness sort of sneaks in the back window while the...
"When you hold a grudge, you want someone else's sorrow to reflect your level of hurt. However, the two rarely meet." ― Steve Maraboli
Enlightenment means taking full responsibility for your life. (William Blake)
The most effective team leaders are servants first… they put others before themselves… they are not too important to do the unpopular jobs… they are the first to volunteer… others know they can tru...
Truly powerful people have great humility. They do not try to impress, they do not try to be influential. They simply are...They listen. If there is anything they can offer to serve you, they offer...
The great secret is not having bad manners or good manners or any other particular sort of manners, but having the same manner for all human souls: in short, behaving as if there are no third-class...
In the horrifying calculus of self-deception, the greater the pain we inflict on others, the greater the need to justify it to maintain our feelings of decency and self-worth. [Carol Tavris, Mista...
Glinda: For the record, I knew you always had it in you. Oz: Greatness? Glinda: No, something better. Goodness. ("Oz the Great and Powerful", 2013)
"We have to recognize that there cannot be relationship unless there is commitment, unless there is loyalty, unless there is love, patience, and persistence." ― Cornel West
I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who will have sought and found how to serve. (Albert Schweitzer)
Gratitude is the ability to experience life as a gift. It liberates us from the prison of self-preoccupation. (John Ortberg)
"I think probably kindness is my number one attribute in a human being. I'll put it before any of the things like courage or bravery or generosity or anything else. Brian Sibley: Or brains even? Oh...
When we give freely, we feel full and complete; when we withhold, we feel small, petty, impotent, and lacking. We are meant to learn this great truth, that giving fulfills us, while withholding and...
"If you understand others you are smart. If you understand yourself you are illuminated. If you overcome others you are powerful. If you overcome yourself you have strength." ― Lao Tzu
Our happiness is not necessarily a function of meeting our needs first, or at the expense of others. In fact, to address our needs in such a way is to foster unhappiness. The reality of life is tha...
Prejudice...means we don't see the other human being anymore, but only our own concept of that human being. To reduce the aliveness of another human being to a concept is already a form of violence...
I've been studying aggression for about 30 years, and I've seen that the most harmful belief that a person can have is that they're superior to others. (Brad Bushman)
I will reflect on it, and see what I can come up with.