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Reflecting on the personal impact of the material, Zeck comments, "I am much more aware of my role in relationships, my role in these dealings with other people, my role in collusions I had with other people. [Over time] it became much more difficult to pretend that I wasn't responsible, and that I didn't have accountability and that I wasn't playing a significant role in those relationships like I had in the past. I could always find ways to blame other people, I could always find ways to excuse my behavior, excuse the way I was relating to other people and drat-the Arbinger material has taken all of that away from me! I can no longer do that in good conscience."

One of the questions leaders need to consider is why they spend or need to spend a significant amount of time correcting others? Wouldn't the time spent correcting others be more productively utilized if our direct reports were to correct themselves? The answer is a big YES!

I LOVE this, especially "They don't let anyone limit their joy" - great read!