What Makes Us Happy? - Magazine - The Atlantic - 0 views
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Is there a formula—some mix of love, work, and psychological adaptation—for a good life?
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Sarah McKee on 19 Sep 11I honestly just don't think there is. Obviously some people do, I mean they did this study, but I don't think there is a formula for happiness. I think everyone is different so what makes them happy is different.
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Mike Frieda on 20 Sep 11Right off the bat, I must say no there is not a formula. "Good" is an entirely subjective idea. What one individual considers "good" might be someone else's idea of terrible. Just looking at basic social and cultural values/norms it would be impossible to set a single list of objectives a person must accomplish in order to consider themselves as having a good life.
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Amanda Power on 21 Sep 11Although people are different there are more similarities in all of us than differences. There may not be an exact formula but there might be a specific set of things all people need in order to be happy.
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Eric Henderson on 21 Sep 11I agree with you Amanda, there is definitely not one specific formula that will yield overall hapiness. Yet, there may be a select few aspects of one's life that may yield greater happiness for them than the happiness of a person who does not have those things.
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Melissa Moreno on 21 Sep 11Happiness is dependent upon a persons morals and ethics as well as their culture. I agree with Sarah, there isn't a formula for happiness. A person coming from an affluent culture is more likely going to consider more materialistic things in what makes them happy than someone who comes from a third world country, or even a country that is war torn. At the end of the day you are the one who has to look yourself in the mirror and figure out if you are happy with what you have and the decisions that you make, that is ultimately all that matters.
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that combination of sentiments and physiological factors which in toto is commonly interpreted as successful living.”
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Life is so complex. I believe that there are general things people can do to increase their odds of living a good life, such as staying away from drugs, but there are numerous factors that are beyond their control. Children generally cannot determine whether or not their parents stay together, and as Vaillant states, it is extremely difficult for young people to use "mature adaptations" without going through some experience to teach them how to behave. Life ain't no crystal staircase for anyone. Also, I believe that the question should not be "what makes us happy" but "what satisfies us." Happiness is only on a surface level (and generally temporary) without a foundation of satisfaction.
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This goes back to the "American Dream". The good life and happiness is best identified by the individual rather than others' judgements. Each and every person has their own aspirations and dreams, and how close you come to reaching those goals and happiness, determines how successful you really are.
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I think having a good life is all up to you. You put in the effort and your effort determines the outcome. To have a good life you should eliminate all bad things and obstacles such as drugs, alcohol, and other bad influences. When you eliminate the bad things you can achieve a good life and be happy.