Self-betrayal - 1 views
"If I betrayed myself by not seeing the humanity in the other then I would suffer. I believe every time we demonize anyone we lose some of our humanity." (Jo Berry, TEDx talk)
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"If I betrayed myself by not seeing the humanity in the other then I would suffer. I believe every time we demonize anyone we lose some of our humanity." (Jo Berry, TEDx talk)
Life is a place of service. Joy can be real when people look upon their life as a service and have a definite object in life outside themselves and their personal happiness. (adapted, Leo Tolstoy)
The Arbinger Institute's Jim Ferrell said, "We magnify the worst in each other; we miss some of the problems in ourselves and we drive each other apart." Sometimes the best way to come together is ...
It is much more valuable to look for the strength in others. You can gain nothing by criticizing their imperfections... It is impossible to build one's own happiness on the unhappiness of others. (...
"But then I recognized, 'I am no longer a victim. It doesn't matter what this man does. My life will not be contingent on what he decides to do.' And suddenly I recognize that I am free." (Robi Dam...
When we are prone to harshly judge and condemn others, we should inquire how far we fall short ourselves; we should also consider those periods of suffering when we ourselves were perhaps misjudged...
The best way to forgive someone is to enter into their sufferings. (John Geddes)
I don't know where being a servant came into disrepute. It is the refuge of a philosopher, the food of the lazy, and, properly carried out, it is a position of power, even of love. (John Steinbeck)
Constantly I find myself 'making up my mind' about somebody else: 'He cannot be taken seriously. She is really just asking for attention. They are rabble rousers who only want to cause trouble' The...
This quote made me smile, thanks!
"Sometimes the wrong train can take us to the right place." "When I had nothing to lose, I had everything. When I stopped being who I am, I found myself." ~ Paulo Coelho
We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are. (Anaïs Nin)
The only wisdom we can hope to acquire is the wisdom of humility: humility is endless. (T. S. Eliot)
Happiness is like a butterfly; the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder. (Henry David Thoreau)
When nobody around you seems to measure up, it's time to check your yardstick. (Bill Lemley)
Human beings may not be eager to change, but we have the ability to change, and the fact that many of our self-protective delusions and blind spots are built into the way the brain works is no just...
Look closely and you will find that people are happy because they are grateful. (David Steindl-Rast)
I thought it applies to many areas in life, including forgiveness: "The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now." ~ Chinese Proverb
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