This is our learning organization tribe for those of us who want to pursue the Arbinger Outward Mindset principles and behaviors
I love those ideas! Absolutely! There is one step ahead of time though. It must start with humility, and the idea that "I may be wrong".
started by Joe Bennett on 25 Sep 13
3 follow-ups, last by Brian Suszek on 26 Sep 13
"The first step toward wholeness is to let go of all resentment and recrimination. When we no longer carry ourselves in the world as victims, we can start on the road to recovery, but not until th...
"Self-absorption in all its forms kills empathy and compassion." (Daniel Goleman)
"We are constantly receiving signals from others that reveal something of their needs and hopes and fears. Martin Buber expressed this idea in these words: 'Living means being addressed.' We are ...
My mother always told me forgiveness can be hard for all of us, but we must look even harder at the future, without it.
started by Joe Bennett on 19 Sep 13
2 follow-ups, last by bevharrisaz1 on 19 Sep 13
"Our love of being right is best understood as our fear of being wrong." (Kathryn Schulz)
"We have discovered that the light that will dispel the darkness of our eyes is constantly available, pouring toward us in an uninterrupted stream. Upon this truth hangs our hope." (Bonds That Mak...
"Remember friend, the outer shell Of every man you know full well, But that which tears his soul apart Yea, what is hidden in his heart, Unknown to you his load of care, The burdens he is called t...
Agreed!
started by Joe Bennett on 18 Oct 13
1 follow-up, last by Brian Suszek on 18 Oct 13
I admit it.
started by Joe Bennett on 17 Oct 13
1 follow-up, last by Brian Suszek on 17 Oct 13
"We will not be free from self-deception until fault and blame cease to be the issue." (The Arbinger Institute)
"Our happiness is not necessarily a function of meeting our needs first, or at the expense of others. In fact, to address our needs in such a way is to foster unhappiness. The reality of life is ...
"If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher." (Pema Chodron)
When you guys set that up, can I come too? But seriously, what a powerful statement about how we see others (and ourselves).
started by Joe Bennett on 09 Oct 13
3 follow-ups, last by Harold Wright on 10 Oct 13
"To admit our errors or weaknesses (in an honest, sincere way) can bring us liberation and strength. It will seem ironic to say this, for facing up to the truth is usually what we most fear to do....
Actions speak louder than words. So true!
"The simple, clean truth about ourselves has more therapeutic power than any psychological theory ... No self-proclaimed human authority will serve you better than your own straightforward sense of...
"I always prefer to believe the best of everybody; it saves so much trouble." (Rudyard Kipling)
