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Tom McHale

How much risk is good for kids? Parents make the case for more adventurous childhoods - 0 views

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    "Last week, a study published in the journal Developmental Psychology found that helicopter parents - those who hover over their children - can diminish their children's ability to regulate emotions and behavior. Concerns like these have spurred a backlash against overprotective parenting, with some parents, psychology experts and lawmakers calling for a return to a more laid-back style of child-rearing, with less parental involvement and more autonomy for kids. (This is, of course, a choice of privilege; in impoverished neighborhoods where children regularly encounter unwanted danger and adversity, few parents would actively choose more risk.) The movement to give children more independence got a boost last month when Utah became the first state to put into effect a "free-range parenting" law."
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Julie Lythcott-Haims on Why Helicopter Parenting Doesn't Work - The Atlantic - The Atla... - 0 views

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    ""Initially, helicopter parenting appears to work," says Julie Lythcott-Haims, author of How to Raise an Adult. "As a kid, you're kept safe, you're given direction, and you might get a better grade because the parent is arguing with the teacher." But, ultimately, parents end up getting in the child's way. In the first episode of Home School, The Atlantic's new animated series on parenting, Lythcott-Haims explains how helicopter parenting strips children of agency and the ability to cultivate their own tools to navigate the world. "Our job as parents is-like it or not-to put ourselves out of a job," she says. This episode of Home School was produced by Elyse Kelly."
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Black Mirror Arkangel: Are we already living in a dystopia of parental surveillance? | ... - 0 views

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    "Back when I was in university, a friend of mine called his parents every single night. That's sweet, you might think. But no, it was a ritualistic, mandatory process that he was required to complete. Before the dawn of the mobile phone, the university send-off would be the start of some semblance of independence for parents' children. That's not so true any more, with our technologically connected world. Arkangel is a Black Mirror episode that conveys the cold, hard reality of helicopter parenting: a term describing over-involved parents that make decisions for their children, solving their problems and shielding them from making mistakes."
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A Decade After the iPhone, There's Still No Good Smartphone for Kids - 0 views

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    "There is no iPhone equivalent for children, and there never has been. For the most part, kids are stuck with their parents' hand-me-down smartphones, and the onus is on the parent to install the necessary parental controls. So, why hasn't Silicon Valley successfully made a phone for children? And if it did, what would such a device actually look like?"
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The Momo Challenge Is Not Real - The Atlantic - 0 views

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    "Warning! Please read, this is real," she tweeted. "There is a thing called 'Momo' that's instructing kids to kill themselves," the attached screenshot of a Facebook post reads. "INFORM EVERYONE YOU CAN." Maximoff's plea has been retweeted more than 22,000 times, and the screenshot, featuring the creepy face of "Momo," has spread like wildfire across the internet. Local news hopped on the story Wednesday, amplifying it to millions of terrified parents. Kim Kardashian even posted a warning about the so-called Momo challenge to her 129 million Instagram followers. To any concerned parents reading this: Do not worry. The "Momo challenge" is a recurring viral hoax that has been perpetuated by local news stations and scared parents around the world. This entire cycle of shock, terror, and outrage about Momo even took place before, less than a year ago: Last summer, local news outlets across the country reported that the Momo challenge was spreading among teens via WhatsApp. Previously, rumors about the challenge spread throughout Latin America and Spanish-speaking countries."
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Google, Tell Me. Is My Son a Genius? - NYTimes.com - 2 views

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    "MORE than a decade into the 21st century, we would like to think that American parents have similar standards and similar dreams for their sons and daughters. But my study of anonymous, aggregate data from Google searches suggests that contemporary American parents are far more likely to want their boys smart and their girls skinny. It's not that parents don't want their daughters to be bright or their sons to be in shape, but they are much more focused on the braininess of their sons and the waistlines of their daughters."
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Pew Study: Teens Aren't Happy With Their Screen Time - The Atlantic - 0 views

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    "Phones have saturated teenage life: Ninety-five percent of Americans ages 13 to 17 have a smartphone or access to one, and nearly half report using the internet "almost constantly." But as recent survey data and interviews have suggested, many teens find much of that time to be unsatisfyingly spent. Constant usage shouldn't be mistaken for constant enjoyment, as any citizen of the internet can attest. A new nationally representative survey about "screen time and device distractions" from the Pew Research Center indicates that it's not just parents who think teenagers are worryingly inseparable from their phones-many teens themselves do, too. Fifty-four percent of the roughly 750 13-to-17-year-olds surveyed said they spend too much time absorbed in their phones, and 65 percent of parents said the same of their kids' device usage more generally."
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Do We Understand the Tech Habits of Parents? - Sponsor Content - Morgan Stanley - 0 views

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    "In the summer of 2013, three women fanned out into metropolitan Boston and, for two months, spent their weekdays dining alone at fast food restaurants. They ordered meals and slipped into seats as discreetly as possible, so as not to arouse suspicion. Then they began to spy. They were looking for groups of diners that included an adult and at least one child under the age of 10. The three women, academic researchers from the fields of pediatrics, child development, and anthropology, needed to get close enough to their subjects to notice changes in facial expressions and tones of voice. They took copious notes. Their assignment was to observe, in the minutest detail, how children and their caregivers interacted with their personal mobile devices and also with each other. The resulting study was groundbreaking; it was the first to explore how parents were using personal devices around children. And its headline discovery was disturbing: The more caregivers were absorbed by their smartphones, the more harshly they treated the children they were with."
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'Screenagers' Shows Parents Overwhelmed by Kids' Phone, Computer Use | KQED Future of Y... - 1 views

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    "Smartphones. They hold more potential distractions than a carnival. And more potential for family conflicts, as well. That's the subject of "Screenagers," directed by Delaney Ruston, a primary care doctor and filmmaker who took up the topic in the midst of conflicts over screen time in her own family. In the film, Ruston discusses the issue with parents, academics, mental health professionals and kids, including her own, in an attempt to get a handle on the enormous shift taking place in how tweens and teens interact with the world and each other."
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Google, Tell Me. Is My Son a Genius? - NYTimes.com - 0 views

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    "MORE than a decade into the 21st century, we would like to think that American parents have similar standards and similar dreams for their sons and daughters. But my study of anonymous, aggregate data from Google searches suggests that contemporary American parents are far more likely to want their boys smart and their girls skinny."
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An ABC News Reporter Tests the Boundaries of Investigating Disney and Finds Them - New ... - 0 views

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    "With 20 years' experience as an investigative reporter, Brian Ross of ABC News knows a good story when he hears one. He is also not stupid. He knew the story he heard last spring might raise difficulties because it involved ABC's parent, the Walt Disney Company, but he thought he had enough solid information to pursue it. The story involved accounts of pedophilia and lax security at theme-park resorts, including Walt Disney World, and once Mr. Ross and his longtime producer-partner, Rhonda Schwartz, had finished their reporting, they thought they had a solid investigative piece for ''20/20,'' ABC's news magazine program. But the report was killed last week, or at least shelved. ABC News executives refuse to discuss the reasons in detail and have urged those involved not to discuss the matter publicly. Disney issued a statement saying that its executives had nothing to do with the decision. The saga of the Ross-Schwartz report -- and how ABC dealt with it -- illustrate the thorny problems reporters have in examining their own companies, especially in this age of conglomerates, when many parent companies of media outlets are also involved in many other businesses. Can reporters investigate them the way they would any other subject? If not, where must a line be drawn?"
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Parents' Screen Time Is Hurting Kids - The Atlantic - 0 views

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    "Smartphones have by now been implicated in so many crummy outcomes-car fatalities, sleep disturbances, empathy loss, relationship problems, failure to notice a clown on a unicycle-that it almost seems easier to list the things they don't mess up than the things they do. Our society may be reaching peak criticism of digital devices. Even so, emerging research suggests that a key problem remains underappreciated. It involves kids' development, but it's probably not what you think. More than screen-obsessed young children, we should be concerned about tuned-out parents."
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A Teacher Made a Hitler Joke in the Classroom. It Tore the School Apart. - The New York... - 1 views

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    "THE CONCEPTS OF "safe spaces" and "trigger warnings," hotly debated on college campuses for years, are now reaching high schools too. It's easy enough to say that college students are supposed to have their assumptions challenged daily, even if that sometimes means experiencing discomfort. But the question of what high school students should be exposed to, and protected from, feels murkier in 2018. Today's high school students are more precocious, more politically engaged, more tuned in to their gender identities and nascent sexuality. They are already flooded with uncensored, unedited information, 24 hours a day: What would a safe space even look like for a 16-year-old with an iPhone? At exclusive private schools like Friends, the question is further complicated by the involvement of wealthy parents. As these schools have grown more expensive - Friends costs nearly $50,000 a year - administrators have found themselves trying to balance their own institutional values with the demands of parents who are in a sense high-paying customers. Teachers are increasingly caught between the two."
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Should You Track Your Teen's Location? - The New York Times - 1 views

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    "As a psychologist, I worry that location tracking can confuse the question of who is mainly responsible for the safety of the roaming adolescent - the parent or the teenager? Teenagers are rarely apart from their phones, making it easy for parents to use apps that track their locations. Credit Drew Angerer/Getty Images Image"
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Opinion | The Problem With 'Sharenting' - The New York Times - 0 views

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    "Smartphones and social media may be, in fact, transforming the experience of childhood and adolescence in some ways. But the hard (for many adults to hear) truth is that many of technology's effects on kids have less to do with screen time per se than they do with the decisions grown-ups are making - many of which place children's privacy at great risk. First, there's surveillance. Children are now under intense scrutiny from a young age, from platforms and advertisers, but also parents and other authority figures. Many public schools use online gradebooks, and sometimes app-based communication systems like Class Dojo. Depending on their settings, these systems allow parents to instantly see the score on every quiz, and a record of every time their child is disciplined or praised. Family dynamics vary; these updates may be the catalyst to an important conversation, an invitation to hover or get overly involved in a child's progress, or a prelude to harsh punishment."
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'Redefining Girly' book takes on stereotypes, what girly means - CNN.com - 0 views

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    "Melissa Atkins Wardy calls it her "a-ha" moment. There she was looking for her first sippy cup for her then 6-month-old daughter. Her choices: Mickey Mouse, Diego and "Toy Story" characters for boys, and princesses -- and more princesses -- for girls. Already fired up, she walked through the toy aisles and saw what she describes as a further gender divide. Girls were offered baby dolls, princesses and sexy fashion figures; the boys section had superheroes, building blocks, science kits and dinosaurs. "That was it. There was no middle ground. I didn't see any dolls or cooking sets for boys, nor building blocks or fire trucks for girls," writes Atkins Wardy in her new book "Redefining Girly: How Parents Can Fight the Stereotyping and Sexualizing of Girlhood, from Birth to Tween." After that experience, she said in an interview, "Everything clicked and made sense to me."
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Consuming Kids | Watch Free Documentary Online - 0 views

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    Full Video "Consuming Kids throws desperately needed light on the practices of a relentless multi-billion dollar marketing machine that now sells kids and their parents everything from junk food and violent video games to bogus educational products and the family car. Consuming Kids pushes back against the wholesale commercialization of childhood, raising urgent questions about the ethics of children's marketing and its impact on the health and well-being of kids."
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Why New Jersey's Antibullying Law Should Be a Model for Other States | TIME.com - 0 views

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  • On Sept. 1, New Jersey’s new antibullying law — billed as the nation’s toughest — took effect. The law, which co-sponsor Barbara Buono, the state’s senate majority leader, called “a powerful message to every child in New Jersey,” is an important step forward in combating the bullying of young people.
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  • Critics say the law is too burdensome for teachers and too expensive for school districts and will spawn too many lawsuits.
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  • But here’s why New Jersey should ignore its critics and press ahead — and why other states should follow its lead.
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  • mber after his roommate allegedly took a video of his romantic encounter with a man and streamed it on the Internet. (VIDEO: Chris Colfer Talks Glee, Bullying and Being Yourself) The state responded by indicting Clementi’s roommate on hate-crime charges, but it also did something farther reaching: legislators drafted a law requiring its public schools to adopt extensive antibullying policies. Forty-seven states already have antibullying statutes on the books (New Jersey had a weaker law in place previously), but the new law goes far beyond what most others require. Among other things, New Jersey schools must conduct extensive training of staff and students; appoint safety teams made up of parents, teachers and staff; and launch an investigation of every allegation of bullying within one day.
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  • These particulars are important, but perhaps the most significant thing about the New Jersey law is the strong message it sends. Other states’ laws have similar aims but lack the rigorous oversight and quick response mechanisms that New Jersey is putting in place. The Anti-Bullying Bill of Rights unambiguously puts the state, school officials and law enforcement on the side of victims — and it puts bullies on notice.
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  • But now that it is being implemented, critics are attacking it as being too demanding and too costly. In a recent New York Times article headlined “Bullying Law Puts New Jersey Schools on Spot,” school officials complained that the new law imposes excessive requirements while not providing necessary resources.
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  • The critics’ concerns are not entirely trivial. The Anti-Bullying Bill of Rights has a lot of rules, including 18 pages of “required components.” Training staff will be a lot of work, and it will be expensive for cash-strapped school districts. Making matters worse, any estimate of extra costs, in terms of demands on existing staff and the possible need for outside consultants, is difficult; even the New Jersey’s legislature’s own fiscal estimate ducked the issue. The law also contains a good deal of language that will be challenging to interpret. It defines bullying as, among other things, creating a hostile educational environment “by interfering with a student’s education or by severely or pervasively causing physical or emotional harm to the student.” When does a schoolyard jibe or a mean comment in the cafeteria cross the line? It will require thoughtful interpretation. The law will also, necessarily, thrust school officials into the tricky area of policing student expression, including statements made off campus. This puts schools in a bit of a bind: in several recent rulings, federal courts have reminded schools that they must respect the free-speech rights of their students, even when that speech is harsh or provocative. New Jersey’s law pushes schools in the opposite direction, requiring them to monitor and police certain kinds of speech.
  • There is, however, a broad answer to these concerns: effective antibullying laws are worth the trouble. Bullying is a serious national problem, and Clementi is far from the only student in recent years believed to have taken his life over it. Last year, the parents of Sladjana Vidovic, a Croatian student who attended high school in Mentor, Ohio, sued after their daughter hanged herself. Sladjana is one of five students in Mentor who killed themselves in a span of a little more than three years after allegedly being bullied. Of course, there are countless instances every year of bullying in which the victims do not kill themselves but are nevertheless greatly affected. They drop out. They turn to drugs or alcohol, or run away from home. Or they simply suffer in silence.
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  • The bipartisan and near unanimous support for the Anti-Bullying Bill of Rights in the state legislature shows how united New Jerseyans are in the belief that stronger steps must be taken to combat bullying. Even if implementing the law is not easy, it is clearly something the citizenry wants done.
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      Argument that everyone supports it because politicians voted for it.
  • There may be kinks to work out in the new law, but the big picture is that New Jersey is putting itself out in front nationally on the issue of bullying — and standing firmly with the victims. That is the right place to be.
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  • Critics of the new law complain that it will open the floodgates to lawsuits. The New Jersey Lawsuit Reform Alliance has charged that the Anti-Bullying Bill of Rights essentially gives trial lawyers “a blank check to sue school districts on behalf of bullied children.”
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How Should Children Learn to Shop? - Room for Debate - NYTimes.com - 1 views

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    "Holiday shoppers will mob the malls this weekend. Some of them are shopping for children. Some of them are children. This time of year reminds us of a question facing parents year-round: When and how should children learn to be consumers?"
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Ads Can Now Be Targeted Toward Children Under 13 - AllFacebook - 0 views

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    "A change in the Child Online Privacy Protection Act (COPPA) means that children under the age of 13 can be shown ads targeted toward them when they're online. This could lead to Facebook lowering its age of admission. Drafted in 1998, well before MySpace, Facebook, Twitter and other social networks burst onto the scene, the Federal Trade Commission on Wednesday updated COPPA. The amendments work to protect children online, noting that certain information cannot be collected without parental consent, such as geolocation information and photos. However, the act also notes that it's now OK to advertise to children under the age of 13 (which is Facebook's minimum age requirement):"
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