What works better is praise for effort, and feedback that encourages kids to try different strategies (“Can you think of another way to do it?”)
Experimental studies suggest we can help these kids improve their working memory skills with practice. Computer-based training programs ask kids to pay attention to new information and repeat it back.
Any time we ask kids to play by the rules, we’re encouraging them to develop self-control. But some games are more challenging than others.
kids benefit when parents talk to them about their feelings, show empathy, and discuss constructive ways to cope
Planning is an important component of self-discipline
music training can boost a child's ability to inhibit inappropriate responses
When parents are too controlling, or enforce discipline with threats and harsh punishments, kids may lose important opportunities to regulate themselves.
harsh parenting tactics predict child aggression and other behavior problems
To get along in the classroom, kids need to pay attention, follow directions, stay motivated, and control their impulses. So we might expect self-control to play an important role in academic achievement. Recent studies support the idea.