4:37 I left this comment on the actual youtube video but I realize you wanted it here..

I found his section on talking about oneself really interesting, and I've always kind of felt that way. It's intriguing to notice how you feel when a conversation is entirely centred around the other person and you just have to listen to them bitch and complain, but I love when I'm talking to someone and they're bringing something new to the plate. If I can get something out of the conversation and contribute to it as well, then I believe it was very worthwhile, but enough about me...