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David Ellena

Developing strong peer relationships | SmartBlogs SmartBlogs - 0 views

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    Establishing relationships with peers is critical for leaders
David Ellena

9 Warning Signs an Employee Needs to be Let Go | - 0 views

  • Nine Warning Signs an Employee Needs to be Let Go
  • 1. Things don’t improve with a change of scenery - Maybe it’s the relationship with their boss, certain peers, or the nature of the work has changed and the employee is struggling to perform at his best. Whatever the reason, moving the employee to another role or department can get him back on track.
  • 2. You feel like you have to walk on eggshells around the employee
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  • Don’t underestimate the destructive power of a toxic, unpredictable employee.
  • 3. Emotional instability
  • If you have an employee that demonstrates severe emotional mood swings on the job and in their relationships with others, you need to pursue the proper legal and ethical guidelines in dealing with him to provide the support he needs.
  • 4. Trouble fitting into the company culture
  • 5. Blames others, makes excuses, and challenges authority
  • Troubled employees will often challenge authority by trying to lay the blame at the boss’ feet by saying things like “You should have done this…” or “You didn’t address that problem…” or whatever the case may be.
  • 6. Distorts or manipulates the truth
  • 7. Unseen gaps in performance
  • Maybe it’s sloppy work, not following correct procedures, or even worse, being intentionally deceptive or unethical. Be careful, things may not always be as they seem.
  • 8. A trail of broken relationships
  • A person may be a high-performer in the tasks of his job, but if he can’t get along with other people and has a history of damaging relationships with colleagues, eventually there will come a point where his contributions are outweighed by the damage and drama he creates.
  • 9. Passive-aggressive behavior
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    When it is time to say good bye.
Jason Finley

Pass the Books. Hold the Oil. - NYTimes.com - 0 views

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    Demonstrates the inverse relationship between a country's natural resources and its human ones. 
David Ellena

Doing the Leadership Tango - Promising Practices - Management - GovExec.com - 0 views

  • Effective leadership is akin to a tango. Everyone knows who is the formal leader before the dance begins. But once the action starts effective leadership reflects a flexible dynamic moving partnership, quality of a relationship. Knowing your ABCs—“awareness” of your “behavior” and its “consequences”—is a key leadership building block.
  • The behaviors reflect a simple relationship model comprising eight styles and two energy modes. "Describe," "prescribe," "appreciate" and "inspire" reflect push energy—being understood by you and getting my points across to you. "Attend," "ask," "understand" and "empathize" reflect pull energy—striving to understand the points you are trying to get across to me.
  • Leaders must be aware of their follower’s style, needs and preferences.
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    Knowing your people is a key skill in successful leadership
Child Therapy

Coaching Both Parent And Child - 1 views

I want to see my kid happy and grow to his full potential. That is why, when I see him having trouble opening up to me or to other people, I feel bad as a parent. I feel that I am not doing a good ...

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Helen Otway

Ten Ways to be a Better Leader of Change - 8 views

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    Although the simplicity of this article can be deceiving, it echos the phrase I've heard my mentor use many times before "leaderhsip comes down to how you treat people." I strive to live up to her words each day as I am met daily with the changes in public education.
David Ellena

Seven Things Leaders Can Learn from Bill Clinton About Connecting with People | Eblin G... - 0 views

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    Learn how to connect with people and communicate better
David Ellena

Five Things to Do to Find a Great Mentor | Eblin Group - 0 views

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    Some ways to find a good mentor
David Ellena

7 Ways to Keep Others from Squeezing the Life Out of You - 0 views

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    Ways to tell if you are letting people squeeze the life out of you 
David Ellena

Becoming a Listening Educator | Edutopia - 0 views

  • 1. The Willingness to Slow Down
  • The listening educator feels the urgency of change, but embraces the slower pace of listening.
  • 2. Genuine Curiosity
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  • Each interaction offers a riveting window into another human being's perspective and experience.
  • 3. Attention to Non-Verbal Cues
  • The listening educator pays close attention to non-verbal communication.
  • 4. Self-Awareness and Empathy
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    How you can become a listening educator and why it is important
David Ellena

Leading in a World Gone Social - 3 Tips for Success | - 0 views

  • Trust trumps all – Trust is the bedrock of any successful relationship, and when it comes to leading in a social world, it’s doubly important.
  • Freely share your expertise – Social leaders share their expertise freely without expecting anything in return. You get what you give in the social world. If you’re generous and gracious, people will be generous and gracious in return.
  • Leverage the expertise of your network – Social media has allowed us to connect one-on-one with experts in virtually any field anywhere in the world. Leaders no longer hold all the information and answers in today’s workplace. Your employees can acquire the information they need nearly instantaneously through their social media networks.
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    Tips for leading in a social world
David Ellena

How senior leaders can connect with front-line workers | @SmartBrief SmartBlogs - 0 views

  • Through one-on-one conversations and small-group chats, he created real, personal connections with many of the nearly 200,000 people who made his business run and gathered valuable information about their work and the hotels in the process.
  • Create a safe space for sharing.
  • Meet employees where they are.
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  • Be flexible about the forum.
  • Make room for impromptu encounters. I’ve discovered unscheduled, unscripted chats can be more informative than scheduled coffee chats or other more official forums.
  • Ask good questions.
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    Got out of the office. Here are some ideas on how to do that
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