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Contents contributed and discussions participated by Marina Lacroix

Marina Lacroix

Child brides give voice to their defiance in Yemen - Print Version - International Hera... - 0 views

  • One morning last month, Arwa Abdu Muhammad Ali walked out of her husband's house here and ran to a local hospital, where she complained that he had been beating and sexually abusing her for eight months. That alone would be surprising in Yemen, a deeply conservative Arab society where family disputes tend to be solved privately. What made it even more unusual was that Arwa was 9 years old.
  • The average age of marriage in Yemen's rural areas is 12 to 13, a recent study by Sana University researchers found. The country, at the southern corner of the Arabian Peninsula, has one of the highest maternal mortality rates in the world.
  • Her father, Ali Muhammad al-Ahdal, said he had agreed to the marriage because two of Nujood's older sisters had been kidnapped and forcibly married, with one of them ending up in jail. Al-Ahdal said he had feared the same thing would happen to Nujood, and early marriage had seemed a better alternative.
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  • Poverty is one reason so many Yemeni families marry their children off early. Another is the fear of girls being carried off and married by force. But most important are cultural tradition and the belief that a young virginal bride can best be shaped into a dutiful wife, according to a comprehensive study of early marriage published by Sana University in 2006.
  • Despite the victory, Nasser and other advocates say they are worried about the lack of legal means to fight early marriage. Nujood's case only reached the court because she took such a wildly unusual step and happened on a sympathetic judge.
Marina Lacroix

Connecticut staat homohuwelijk toe - Buitenland - de Volkskrant - 0 views

  • Connecticut is de derde staat in de Verenigde Staten waar het homohuwelijk wordt toegestaan. Het hooggerechtshof in de staat oordeelde vrijdag dat het huidige verbod in strijd is met de grondwet.
Marina Lacroix

Praten over seks onder allochtonen nog taboe - Binnenland - de Volkskrant - 0 views

  • Alle campagnes ten spijt, een moslima zapt bij een tv-spotje over veilig vrijen uit schaamte nog steeds gauw weg.
  • Allochtone jongeren vertonen vaker seksueel risicovol gedrag dan autochtone jongeren. Uit cijfers van de Rutgers Nisso Groep en Soa Aids Nederland blijkt dat allochtone jongeren oververtegenwoordigd zijn als het gaat om seksueel overdraagbare aandoeningen en onbedoelde zwangerschappen. Bovendien zijn zij vaker slachtoffer en dader van seksueel geweld
  • Naar aanleiding van de cijfers laat staatssecretaris Bussemaker van Volksgezondheid deze maand onderzoek doen naar de seksuele gezondheid van allochtone jongeren. Ze wil weten waarom de huidige seksuele voorlichting niet overkomt op deze doelgroep.
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  • ‘Het probleem met de huidige campagnes is dat ze te veel zijn gericht op het witte model’, zegt Paul Poortvliet van onderzoeksbureau Research voor Beleid. ‘Ze sluiten niet aan op de belevingswereld van allochtone jongeren omdat ze bijvoorbeeld te direct zijn.
  • ‘Onder veel moslims is seksuele voorlichting nog steeds taboe. Ouders zijn bang dat ze daarmee hun kinderen juist op verkeerde ideeën brengen en steken liever hun kop in het zand.’
  • Volgens haar zijn steeds meer islamitische meiden al voor het huwelijk seksueel actief. ‘Veel moslimmeiden hebben een vriendje in een andere stad, ver weg van de controle van hun familie. Ze denken dat dit kan omdat ze hun maagdenvlies operatief kunnen laten herstellen als ze gaan trouwen. Dat komt meer voor dan wij denken.’
  • In een traditioneel islamitische opvoeding wordt een assertieve houding van een meisje niet getolereerd. ‘Dan kan je ook niet verwachten dat ze genoeg zelfvertrouwen heeft en nee durft te zeggen tegen een jongen als ze op seksueel gebied iets niet wil. Daar moet ook iets veranderen. We kunnen nieuwe generaties niet weer opzadelen met dit probleem.’
Marina Lacroix

Elsevier.nl - Gezondheid - Jonge vrouwen 'gehersenspoeld door liefdeloze porno' - 0 views

  • Dat meisjes wellicht mondig genoeg zijn zich te verzetten tegen de handelingen van hun vriendjes, of om aan te geven wat zij wel en niet lekker vinden, is volgens Opzij niet aan de orde.Het blad beweert dat meisjes zich niet tegen de ruwe handelingen van hun partner durven te verzetten, omdat ‘ze gehersenspoeld zijn’ door de mediabeelden (natuurlijk weer die vervloekte rapvideo’s) die zeggen dat ze ‘sexy en gewillig’ moeten zijn.
  • Of jongeren er echt op zitten te wachten, dat de docent seksueel genot klassikaal behandelt, is wederom niet duidelijk, want er komt geen jongere aan het woord.
Marina Lacroix

'We're talking about women's lives' | Life and style | The Guardian - 0 views

  • the UK's 1967 Abortion Act was passed when Northern Ireland had its own parliament - and even after direct rule was imposed in the early 1970s the law was never extended. Now that could be about to change.
  • more than 50,000 women have had to leave Northern Ireland in search of abortions in the past 40 years - many in the later stages of pregnancies because of delays caused by financial hardship. In 2007 alone, it estimates, around 1,400 women fled, paying up to £2,500 each for clinic and travel costs
  • some women are so desperate they are buying abortion pills on the internet. She adds that, according to one survey of GPs in Northern Ireland, 11% "have seen the results of amateur abortions"
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  • the louder anti-abortion voices "drown out" those of more moderate women and men who support the right to choose. "We are criminalising women and we have a situation where people are fearful of talking openly about abortion, never mind admitting to having one."
  • Les Reid of the Belfast Humanist Association, another pro-choice advocate, believes that for all the threats of constitutional crisis, the anti-abortion lobby's protestations may come to nothing in the long term. "The DUP and the Catholic church warned that gay rights would never be accepted in Northern Ireland, but time has proved them wrong," he says.
  • For Smith, an extension in the law can't come a moment too soon. "I understand that many people do not agree with abortion," she says. "That is their right and I respect it. But I don't see why they should be able to impose their views on me or any other woman
Marina Lacroix

Over seks hoef je niet omslachtig te doen - Trouw - 0 views

  • Twintig jaar geleden begon Hanni Jagtman (57) de eerste vrouwvriendelijke sekswinkel van Nederland, en naar eigen zeggen ook van Europa.
  • „Er was veel rommel te koop, daar moesten we doorheen. Van die levensgrote kunstpenissen, en vibrators die een ’hulpmiddel’ werden genoemd. Daar hebben we snel korte metten mee gemaakt. Een kunstpenis heet gewoon een dildo, en aan een vibrator beleven we plezier, dus dat noemen we niet een ’hulpmiddel’.”
  • „Het is heel lastig om de teksten te maken, we hebben in Nederland geen goede vocabulaire voor seks. We kunnen hier uren discussiëren over het wel of niet gebruiken van het woord ’neuken’. Ik vind het een rotwoord, dat komt ook door verkeerde associaties met foute porno. Door die woorden toch te gebruiken, probeer ik ook iets te doorbreken. Als we het maar vaak genoeg zeggen, gaan we het misschien gewoon vinden.”
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  • „We willen het thema seks in een positief daglicht zetten. Dus niet plat en geil, maar vanuit respect, menselijkheid, waardigheid. Seks is niet een plat ding dat je aan de man of vrouw brengt. Ons bestaansrecht ligt in onze deskundigheid op het brede gebied van seks, liefde en relaties. We zijn een speciaalzaak, en daar is altijd behoefte aan.”
Marina Lacroix

AIDS prevention for women. - By Amanda Schaffer - Slate Magazine - 0 views

  • Microbicides have long been high on the wish list of grass-roots activists, who see them as the most promising way to prevent AIDS for heterosexual women at high risk of infection from unfaithful husbands or partners, especially in Asia and Africa.
  • Yet to date, research related to their development represents only 2 percent of all AIDS spending by the National Institutes of Health
  • One mathematical model, which focused on Johannesburg, South Africa, predicted that if 75 percent of area residents were to use a 40-percent-effective microbicide in half of the sexual encounters in which they didn't use condoms, the local incidence of HIV infection would drop by 9 percent. That may not sound like much, but across countries and continents, similar percentages could translate into millions of saved lives.
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  • Microbicides could be a particular boon to married women. While condoms have been successful in slowing the spread of AIDS among commercial sex workers and others, their association with illicit sex makes many long-term couples reluctant to use them.
  • Another appeal is that some microbicides are not contraceptives, which means that women who want to get pregnant won't have to choose between exposing themselves to infection and having kids.
Marina Lacroix

The Atlantic Online | November 2008 | A Boy's Life | Hanna Rosin - 0 views

  • “If a 5-year-old black kid came into the clinic and said he wanted to be white, would we endorse that?” he told me. “I don’t think so. What we would want to do is say, ‘What’s going on with this kid that’s making him feel that it would be better to be white?’”
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      The other side of the debate: don't change the biology, adapt the psychology.
  • Zucker says that in 25 years, not one of the patients who started seeing him by age 6 has switched gender. Adolescents are more fixed in their identity. If a parent brings in, say, a 13-year-old who has never been treated and who has severe gender dysphoria, Zucker will generally recommend hormonal treatment. But he considers that a fraught choice. “One has to think about the long-term developmental path. This kid will go through lifelong hormonal treatment to approximate the phenotype of a male and may require some kind of surgery and then will have to deal with the fact that he doesn’t have a phallus; it’s a tough road, with a lot of pain involved.”
  • When they reversed course, they dedicated themselves to the project with a thoroughness most parents would find exhausting and off-putting. They boxed up all of John’s girl-toys and videos and replaced them with neutral ones. Whenever John cried for his girl-toys, they would ask him, “Do you think playing with those would make you feel better about being a boy?” and then would distract him with an offer to ride bikes or take a walk. They turned their house into a 1950s kitchen-sink drama, intended to inculcate respect for patriarchy, in the crudest and simplest terms: “Boys don’t wear pink, they wear blue,” they would tell him, or “Daddy is smarter than Mommy—ask him.” If John called for Mommy in the middle of the night, Daddy went, every time. When I visited the family, John was lazing around with his older brother, idly watching TV and playing video games, dressed in a polo shirt and Abercrombie & Fitch shorts. He said he was glad he’d been through the therapy, “because it made me feel happy,” but that’s about all he would say
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  • Catherine Tuerk, who runs the support group for parents in Washington, D.C., started out as an advocate for gay rights after her son came out, in his 20s. She has a theory about why some parents have become so comfortable with the transgender label: “Parents have told me it’s almost easier to tell others, ‘My kid was born in the wrong body,’ rather than explaining that he might be gay, which is in the back of everyone’s mind. When people think about being gay, they think about sex—and thinking about sex and kids is taboo.”
  • A 2008 study of 25 girls who had been seen in Zucker’s clinic showed positive results; 22 were no longer gender-dysphoric, meaning they were comfortable living as girls. But that doesn’t mean they were happy. I spoke to the mother of one Zucker patient in her late 20s, who said her daughter was repulsed by the thought of a sex change but was still suffering—she’d become an alcoholic, and was cutting herself.
  • Diagnoses of gender-identity disorder among adults have tripled in Western countries since the 1960s; for men, the estimates now range from one in 7,400 to one in 42,000 (for women, the frequency of diagnosis is lower). Since 1952, when Army veteran George Jorgensen’s sex-change operation hit the front page of the New York Daily News, national resistance has softened a bit, too. Former NASCAR driver J.T. Hayes recently talked to Newsweek about having had a sex-change operation. Women’s colleges have had to adjust to the presence of “trans-men,” and the president-elect of the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association is a trans-woman and a successful cardiologist.
  • Around the world, clinics that specialize in gender-identity disorder in children report an explosion in referrals over the past few years. Dr. Kenneth Zucker, who runs the most comprehensive gender-identity clinic for youth in Toronto, has seen his waiting list quadruple in the past four years, to about 80 kids—an increase he attributes to media coverage and the proliferation of new sites on the Internet.
  • Dr. Peggy Cohen-Kettenis, who runs the main clinic in the Netherlands, has seen the average age of her patients plummet since 2002. “We used to get calls mostly from parents who were concerned about their children being gay,” says Catherine Tuerk, who since 1998 has run a support network for parents of children with gender-variant behavior, out of Children’s National Medical Center in Washington, D.C. “Now about 90 percent of our calls are from parents with some concern that their child may be transgender.”
  • The point was to take the situation out of the realm of deep pathology or mental illness, while at the same time separating it from voluntary behavior, and to put it into the idiom of garden-variety “challenge.”
  • A recent medical innovation holds out the promise that this might be the first generation of transsexuals who can live inconspicuously. About three years ago, physicians in the U.S. started treating transgender children with puberty blockers, drugs originally intended to halt precocious puberty. The blockers put teens in a state of suspended development.
  • “Yeah, it is fixable,” piped up another mom, who’d been on the 20/20 special. “We call it the disorder we cured with a skirt.”
  • The problem with blockers is that parents have to begin making medical decisions for their children when the children are quite young. From the earliest signs of puberty, doctors have about 18 months to start the blockers for ideal results. For girls, that’s usually between ages 10 and 12; for boys, between 12 and 14.
  • Blockers are entirely reversible; should a child change his or her mind about becoming the other gender, a doctor can stop the drugs and normal puberty will begin. The Dutch clinic has given them to about 70 children since it started the treatment, in 2000; clinics in the United States and Canada have given them to dozens more. According to Dr. Peggy Cohen-Kettenis, the psychologist who heads the Dutch clinic, no case of a child stopping the blockers and changing course has yet been reported.
  • This suggests one of two things: either the screening is excellent, or once a child begins, he or she is set firmly on the path to medical intervention. “Adolescents may consider this step a guarantee of sex reassignment,” wrote Cohen-Kettenis, “and it could make them therefore less rather than more inclined to engage in introspection.” In the Netherlands, clinicians try to guard against this with an extensive diagnostic protocol, including testing and many sessions “to confirm that the desire for treatment is very persistent,” before starting the blockers.
  • The most extensive study on transgender boys was published in 1987 as The “Sissy Boy Syndrome” and the Development of Homosexuality. For 15 years, Dr. Richard Green followed 44 boys who exhibited extreme feminine behaviors, and a control group of boys who did not.
  • Green expected most of the boys in the study to end up as transsexuals, but nothing like that happened. Three-fourths of the 44 boys turned out to be gay or bisexual (Green says a few more have since contacted him and told him they too were gay). Only one became a transsexual. “We can’t tell a pre-gay from a pre-transsexual at 8,” says Green, who recently retired from running the adult gender-identity clinic in England. “Are you helping or hurting a kid by allowing them to live as the other gender?
  • In 2012, the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders—the bible for psychiatric professionals—will be updated. Many in the transgender community see this as their opportunity to remove gender-identity disorder from the book, much the same way homosexuality was delisted in 1973.
  • Zucker has compared young children who believe they are meant to live as the other sex to people who want to amputate healthy limbs, or who believe they are cats, or those with something called ethnic-identity disorder
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    Account of the life of a transgender boy and the history of thinking about transsexuality
Marina Lacroix

Le Monde.fr : Sarah Palin, féministe? - 0 views

  • contre l'égalité de salaires, contre l'avortement (même en cas de viol ou d'inceste), contre l'éducation sexuelle, le contrôle des naissances,
  • Palin ne partage rien d'autre qu'un chromosome avec Clinton
  • le féminisme n'a jamais eu pour objet de faire obtenir un poste à une femme, plutôt de rendre la vie plus juste pour l'ensemble des femmes
Marina Lacroix

One in four girls - International Herald Tribune - 0 views

  • One in four girls ages 14 to 19 is infected with at least one of four common diseases. Among black girls in the study, almost half were infected.
  • in 2003-4
  • By far the most common of the four STDs was the human papillomavirus, or HPV, which infected 18 percent of the girls. Chlamydia infected 4 percent, trichomoniasis - a common parasite - 2.5 percent, and genital herpes 2 percent.
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  • Even among girls who said they had had only a single sexual partner, 20 percent were infected.
Marina Lacroix

Philippine economy struggles with high birth rates - International Herald Tribune - 0 views

  • He compares the Philippines to Thailand. In 1975, both countries had similar population sizes of 41 million to 42 million. Then Bangkok began a major family-planning effort that included condom distribution as well as an awareness campaign. Now Thailand has a population of about 64 million and is the world's top exporter of rice. Meanwhile, the Philippines, with a population of 90 million, is the world's top rice importer. Thailand had a gross annual per capita income of $7,880 in 2007, while in the Philippines it was $3,730.
  • Pernia said that if the Philippines had followed the population growth trajectory of Thailand between 1975 and 2000, then its per capita income would have been at least 22 percent higher and there would have been five million fewer poor people.
  • Nearly half of the estimated 3.1 million pregnancies that occur every year in this Southeast Asian country are unplanned. Around half a million end in illegal and often dangerous back-street abortions.
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  • A month's supply of the pill costs 39 pesos, or around $0.86 - about half the average daily salary of almost half the population. A lack of accurate information and access is also a problem.
  • Joseph Juico, a councilor in Quezon City in Manila, was denounced for introducing a family-planning program in schools.
  • compulsory family-planning seminars
Marina Lacroix

Kristof: Can this be pro-life? - International Herald Tribune - 0 views

  • the U.S. Agency for International Development ordered six African countries to ensure that no U.S.-funded condoms, birth control pills, IUDs or other contraceptives are furnished to Marie Stopes International, a British-based aid group that operates clinics in poor countries.
  • The irony and hypocrisy of it is that this is a bone to the self-described 'pro-life' movement, but it will result in deaths to women who just want to space their births
  • the result will be at least 157,000 additional unwanted pregnancies per year, leading to 62,000 additional abortions and 660 women dying in childbirth.
Marina Lacroix

BBC NEWS | UK | Scotland | 'Cultural views affect STI rates' - 0 views

  • it's not sex education which is important, but culture and parent-child relationships
  • In all countries with low levels of teenage pregnancies and sexual infections, adults are more accepting of sexual activity among teenagers. However, these countries also give clear messages that sex should occur within committed relationships and that teenagers should protect themselves against pregnancy and infection.
Marina Lacroix

BBC NEWS | Health | Sex infections in young up again - 0 views

  • There was a 6% rise in sex infections in the UK in 2007 compared to 2006
  • Half of the total were in people aged 16-24, despite the fact they represent just one in eight of the population
  • Young people still aren't getting the education and the services they need to manage their health and relationships
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  • The 16-24-year-old age group accounted for 65% of all new chlamydia cases diagnosed in 2007, 55% of genital warts and 50% of gonorrhoea.
Marina Lacroix

BBC NEWS | Health | Europeans get drunk 'to have sex' - 0 views

  • A third of 16 to 35-year-old men and 23% of women questioned said they drank to increase their chance of sex.
  • Young people were also more at risk of unsafe sex while under the influence of alcohol or drugs, the study found.
Marina Lacroix

Istanbul en de dubbele moraal tegenover homo's - Buitenland - de Volkskrant - 0 views

  • dubbelleven
  • Onder druk van zijn familie heeft Hamid moeten besluiten toch maar te trouwen.
  • ‘Het erge is dat zo twee mensen ongelukkig worden, niet alleen zo’n jongen, maar ook het meisje met wie hij trouwt.’
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  • Net zoals de Amsterdamse hoofdinspecteur deed met Vietnamdemonstranten in de jaren zestig, laadde de politie de travestieten in vrachtwagens en dumpte die buiten de stad.
  • Ik zat zelf een keer in een homobar bij een inval van de politie. Toen ze zagen dat niemand met lang haar of make-up rondliep, gingen ze weg omdat er geen homo’s zouden zijn’, lacht Özkan.
  • Ter illustratie vertelt hij een waargebeurd verhaal uit het leger. ‘Twee mannen werden met elkaar betrapt in een washok. De passieve werd uit het leger gegooid, maar de actieve, de echte vent dus, kreeg alleen celstraf.’
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