Yes, as the saying goes you get what you give out...

Have you been sending out all those subtle signals that attracted this break up to you. Of course it may not have been as straight forward as the principle of give and take in relationships, but then the bottom line is that you attracted or got involved with a person who was not right for you. So you did attract this relationship that ended in the break up.

And if you are not ready to turn aroud and look inside yourself first, before you rush head long into another relationship, chances are that you will attract the similar kind of person or situation into your life again.

What are you attracting and why are you attracting it. Look inside yourself and get very clear.