Email Icebreaker #4: “I’m intrigued by…”
Mention what interests you and what you liked about the other person’s online dating profile. “I have been on and off of Match.com and am actually dating a guy from there now,” says Amy Jo Beaver, a health coach in Atlanta. “My number-one suggestion is to actually read the person’s profile and reference what things you liked in it, and then ask a question (or questions) specific to that particular profile. Too many guys send generic emails that make me wonder whether they actually even read my profile.” Angela Dupont, a lead concierge living in Dallas/Ft. Worth, agrees: “My biggest gripe was when someone would just send a ‘hey, what’s up?’ type of email. I looked for proof that he actually read my profile and comprehended what it is that I’m looking for. Men need to show me a little bit about how they relate to me and why they think we could have something in common.”