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    As is evident, pre-K and control children started the pre-K year at virtually identical levels. The TNVPK children were substantially ahead of the control group children at the end of the pre-K year (age 5 in the graph). By the end of kindergarten (age 6 in the graph), the control children had caught up to the TNVPK children, and there were no longer significant differences between them on any achievement measures. The same result was obtained at the end of first grade using two composite achievement measures (the second created with the addition of two more WJIII subtests appropriate for the later grades). In second grade, however, the groups began to diverge with the TNVPK children scoring lower than the control children on most of the measures. The differences were significant on both achievement composite measures and on the math subtests. Differences favoring the control persisted through the end of third grade.
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Why most older Chinese women do not work | Andrew Batson's Blog - 0 views

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    "The first and foremost explanation is the low pension age for urban women. The biggest public pension schemes set the formal retirement age at 50 for female workers and 55 for female "cadres" or managers, and 60 for men. However, there are different rules for people with special circumstances like disabilities and compliance is not perfect, so the age at which a woman becomes eligible for a public pension can be as early as 45 or as late as 60. According to the China Health and Retirement Longitudinal Study 2011, 90% of current female pensioners completed the retirement process by 55. … The second explanation of low employment rate among older females is their adult children. First, (expected) financial transfers from children when one is old and frail reduce the need to accumulate a large stock of assets through working. About 60% of women in their 50s live with their children, and about 70% receive financial support from their non-coresident children in the last year. There is some evidence that the financial transfers from children respond to parental incomes. Thus, transfers from children have a wealth effect as well as an insurance effect, both of which have implications for parents' decisions on labour supply and saving."
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Making Every School an Accessible School - Singapore Policy Journal - 0 views

  • The MOE argues that alumni and community “help build up and strengthen the school’s tradition and ethos, and support its students” (Lim, 2009), but these policies are likely to further perpetuate inequality between schools: the minority of elite, brand-name institutions can benefit from these stakeholders in ways that the large majority of new, nondescript, ‘neighborhood’ primary schools cannot. Giving priority to special groups in Phase 2A (children of alumni, management, and staff, and siblings of alumni) and 2B (children of school volunteers, ‘active community leaders’, and members of affiliated churches and Chinese clans) is both unfair and anachronistic. It allows parents to directly transfer privilege and opportunity to their children.
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    "Primary school admission policies come in different phases. The highest priority is given to applicants with blood ties to a school (Phases 1 and 2A). The remaining places go to other applicants in Phases 2B and 2C, with priority given to those who live closest to the school. Without alumni or blood tie connections, the only way to get into an elite school is by moving close to the school. Liang and Warrier found that in order to move within one kilometer of a school ranked 50 places higher, a typical family has to pay a premium of 131,000 Singapore Dollars. This premium costs about 30% more than the average household income, massively pricing out households hoping to send their children to higher-ranked schools. Not only does one have to pay more to get into a 'good' school, Liang and Warrier also discover massive inequalities in Phase 1 and 2A admissions. Grouping housing prices by Clusters, they find that these better schools in more expensive neighborhoods already have a higher Take-Up Rate (TUR, which is the spaces taken up by the end of 2A). In schools like Nanyang Primary School, children of alumni, management, and staff take up 90% of available seats, severely reducing the enrollment chances of people with no connections to the school. This accentuates the privilege of elites in propping up the futures of their children, undermining meritocracy while marching steadily towards 'parentocracy'."
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Why is feminism still so afraid to focus on its flaws? | Deborah Orr | Comment is free ... - 0 views

  • Feminists (and I'm generalising here) tend towards the conclusion that women who don't sign up are simply hostages to the tyranny of the patriarchy, whose feeble personal consciousnesses have refused to be raised.
  • The fundamental and rather serious problem is the blunt and somewhat stubborn emphasis on "equality", difficult enough in a society deeply divided by economic inequality generally, even without the added complication that it's the people with care of children, whatever their sex, whose economic freedom is most compromised the world over.
  • It has also embraced, then dumped the idea of women who "have it all". The archetypal feminist of the 80s and 90s had a fulfilling and dynamic career, wonderful children, a lovely home and fabulous grooming. Consensus on the impossibility of such a lifestyle for any but the wealthiest has been long-since reached.
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  • The mass entry of women into the workplace in the latter half of the last century was claimed too unequivocally as a purely feminist achievement. Yet the door opened so easily when pushed because the needs of capitalism had undone the bolt.
  • the fast-burgeoning demand for professionals did as much to usher women into flashy jobs as female liberation did.
  • equal opportunity in the workplace has not resulted in equal achievement, and not all of this is the fault of continuing chauvinism. Women bear the children and, far more often than not, they wish to be the primary carer for those children. At its most strident, feminism can be mistaken for an ideology designed to make women feel they are wrong to want that.
  • Worse, feminism has accidentally promoted the idea that it's pretty easy to work and have children, with the right support in place. On even an average income, it's never easy, even once children are at secondary school (though it's certainly easier then). Your priorities change. Work is no longer the most important thing, for a while anyway. Ambition can dissipate.
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Hen: Sweden's new gender neutral pronoun causes controversy. - Slate Magazine - 0 views

  • Ironically, in the effort to free Swedish children from so-called normative behavior, gender-neutral proponents are also subjecting them to a whole set of new rules and new norms as certain forms of play become taboo, language becomes regulated, and children's interactions and attitudes are closely observed by teachers. One Swedish school got rid of its toy cars because boys "gender-coded" them and ascribed the cars higher status than other toys. Another preschool removed "free playtime" from its schedule because, as a pedagogue at the school put it, when children play freely "stereotypical gender patterns are born and cemented. In free play there is hierarchy, exclusion, and the seed to bullying." And so every detail of children's interactions gets micromanaged by concerned adults, who end up problematizing minute aspects of children's lives, from how they form friendships to what games they play and what songs they sing.
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    . In a recent interview for Vice magazine, Jan Guillou, one of Sweden's most well-known authors, referred to proponents of hen as "feminist activists who want to destroy our language." Other critics believe it can be psychologically and socially damaging, especially for children. Elise Claeson, a columnist and a former equality expert at the Swedish Confederation of Professions, has said that young children can become confused by the suggestion that there is a third, "in-between" gender at a time when their brains and bodies are developing. Adults should not interrupt children's discovery of their gender and sexuality, argues Claeson. She told the Swedish daily, Dagens Nyheter, that "gender ideologues" have managed to change the curriculum to establish that schools should actively counter gender roles.
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In Japan, Small Children Take the Subway and Run Errands Alone - CityLab - 0 views

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    What accounts for this unusual degree of independence? Not self-sufficiency, in fact, but "group reliance," according to Dwayne Dixon, a cultural anthropologist who wrote his doctoral dissertation on Japanese youth. "[Japanese] kids learn early on that, ideally, any member of the community can be called on to serve or help others," he says. This assumption is reinforced at school, where children take turns cleaning and serving lunch instead of relying on staff to perform such duties. This "distributes labor across various shoulders and rotates expectations, while also teaching everyone what it takes to clean a toilet, for instance," Dixon says. Taking responsibility for shared spaces means that children have pride of ownership and understand in a concrete way the consequences of making a mess, since they'll have to clean it up themselves. This ethic extends to public space more broadly (one reason Japanese streets are generally so clean). A child out in public knows he can rely on the group to help in an emergency.
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Powerless to protect our kids? Oh, do grow up | Barbara Ellen | Comment is free | The O... - 0 views

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    This idea that we are powerless against a cultural tsunami - come on! Once late teenage hits, many parents learn the hard way about powerlessness, but not in the age range under discussion here. As the mother of an eight-year-old, I'm finding it easy to keep her away from padded bikinis, Nuts, internet porn, violent video games and sexy music videos. I did think The X Factor routines were too much for "little eyes", but it wasn't difficult to flick the channel over for a few minutes. It wasn't as if I was trapped, Dr Who-style, in a child-sexualised force field, unable to reach the TV remote. Indeed, as much as David Cameron seems to be enjoying waltzing around, looking all gung ho and "concerned father-ish", he must know that, without hands-on parental involvement, there is only so much the coalition can achieve. Popular culture does not exist to babysit our children. As always, parents have to step in where appropriate, too. So let's stop the sub-McCarthyist hysteria about child sexualisation and get some perspective - no one is going to steal your child's childhood, unless you let them. "Porn star" knickers for children are creepy, but they can't jump into underwear drawers all by themselves.
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Flexible Work Policies for Non-Parents - Motto - 0 views

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    Of course, likening these situations to the birth of a child is an imperfect comparison. I don't pretend to have a bulletproof answer, nor would I arrogantly endeavor to suggest that a single solution could even come close to being applicable and realistic for all businesses and industries. What I'm asking, however, is that we start talking about parental leave as an issue we can solve together in a way that involves celebrating other employees' life choices as part of the solution. Let's make those who don't want children, have already had children or may not have children for many years feel like their lives outside the office matter, too.
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The Gendered Politics of Care by Anne-Marie Slaughter - Project Syndicate - 0 views

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    "The solution is to focus less on women and more on elevating the value of care and expanding the roles and choices open to men. Electing and appointing more women to powerful roles remains essential. But focusing on women's advancement is biased toward tracking how many are rising to the top: the overall percentage at work, their average salaries, and how many become CEOs, senior managers, tenured professors, bankers, surgeons, law partners, parliamentarians, presidents, and ministers. A focus on care, by contrast, opens the door to the dual problem of too few women at the top and far too many at the bottom. American women hold less than 15% of executive-level positions in Fortune 500 companies and 62% of minimum-wage jobs. As a result, one in three adult women are living in or on the edge of poverty, with the picture especially bleak for single mothers, almost two-thirds of whom are working in dead-end, poorly compensated jobs without flexibility or benefits. What is common to both sets of women, and all the women in between, is that they are still charged with primary responsibility for caregiving - for children, parents, and other family members - in a system that devalues and provides little support for the care work they do. Although wealthy women can and do buy the care work of poorer women, many also choose to work part-time or flexibly to provide the stimulation and education their children need."
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    introducing your children to additional role models and sources of inspiration - your friends and co-workers, or so one should hope - is one of the best things you can do for them.  Most wealthy, famous, and well-educated parents under-invest in this activity.  The bottom line is that after some margin you stop influencing them, but they don't stop looking around for sources of influence.
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To Have and To Hold- Guest Post by Fenner Pearson « Guardian Watch - 0 views

  • little girls – and teenage girls and girls in their twenties – dream about their wedding day. Is it something in the human psyche or, as Suzanne Moore says in her article in The Guardian on Saturday (http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2011/feb/12/suzanne-moore-marriage-tax-breaks), just a cultural artefect?
  • I’m ambivalent about marriage (even though I’m on my second one). If two people want to make a lifelong commitment, that’s fine. Is it realistic? It depends on the couple. Do I think it’s meaningful? No, not really. Years ago, I worked with a divorced woman who had been married for a couple of years. Since her divorce, she’d seen her ex-husband once, in a supermarket. The marriage might not have been for life but the separation was obviously working out very well.
  • It’s not marriage that binds you for life, it’s children. With the dishonourable exception of those runaway, absentee father, of course, and they bring me to my first main point in writing this: the CSA and the consequent implications for how the state views fathers, a view sustained by The Guardian.
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  • When the CSA was first introduced, it laudably went after those fathers who had apparently abandoned their children (and I’ll return to that ‘apparently’ in a moment). In the end though, it took the easier road of harrassing those fathers who were already in touch with their children and helping to support them. And, like solicitors during a divorce, the ‘help’ provided often was a source of renewed antagonism between the estranged parents.
  • if you are the father of a child but were not married to the mother, then whilst the CSA can pursue you for support payments, you have no right under law to see your child. That’s right. The law recognises you as the father as far as making you pay is concerned but doesn’t grant you the right to see and love that child.
  • Nearly ten years ago a friend of mine rang me to tell me his on-off girlfriend was pregnant and my immediate advice to him was to marry her.
  • I told him to marry her because it would give him a legal right to see his own child.
  • I’m sorry Suzanne missed this argument for getting married out of her article. The thrust of it, of course, was about tax and the government’s rewards for those who are lucky enough to enter and remain in a happy marriage, so I’m not criticising her. But if she was looking for a counterargument, a reason as to why people should marry, then this is it, at least for the men.
  • even if you are divorced, then access to children is, by default, controlled by the mother. So, although Suzanne says “There are two separate issues. One concerns the people who don’t get married in the first place. The other is divorce”, the truth is that for men, both situations bring the very similar issues. The difference, though, is that as a divorced man, you do have a legal right to access.
  • Coincidentally, though, Suzanne is directly on-message with The Guardian, which is happy enough to print random, unsubstantiated and often ill-thought out diatribes against men by a small group of ‘feminists’ but doesn’t give sufficient space to those men who have have a genuine grievance against the law. Woman can be both as fair and as unfair as men and it is completely wrong to leave the access to the children in their hands.
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    The law recognises you as the father as far as making you pay is concerned but doesn't grant you the right to see and love that child.
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Patrick Strudwick - Blogs - GayTimes - 0 views

  • Iain Dale says there’s nothing anti-gay about believing we’re not suitable to look after children: “There are lots of people in this country who aren’t homophobic who don’t believe in gay adoption”. Andrew Pierce attacks those who criticise homophobes: “The very intolerance that was once targeted at gays is now being directed at those who have sincerely-held…objections to gay equality.” He attacks Graham Norton for being a “mincing” “vulgar” “parody”. He mocks Alan Carr for being a “limp-wristed, lisping screamer”. He criticises Gok Wan for being “more camp than an Ascot marquee”. Only those who secretly think there’s something wrong with being gay – or being obviously gay - deem “camp” a valid criticism. When the Pope smeared Harriet Harman’s Equality Bill saying it “violates the natural law” Pierce wrote that he “agreed with much of what he said”.
  • Alan Duncan openly opposes gay marriage. “It’s helpful to keep the distinction between civil partnerships and full marriage rights,” he told me. He has also admitted that he’s “seriously uneasy” with gay people having children, which, he thinks, is “not consistent with being in a gay partnership”. When I asked him about these assertions he replied: “There’s a risk it’s more for the interest of the gay person than it is in the long term interest of the child.” This is despite study after study finding that children of gay parents fare just as well if not better than those of straight couples. There is a word for negative feelings that are not based on fact: fear. Which is, of course, the chief ingredient of homophobia.
  • What Andrew Pierce and the rest fail to realise is that part of the reason for their prominence is that they are the ultimate gift to those who loathe us. They are the puppets of our oppressors. Powerful organisations can wheel them out and cry, “Look, even gay people think the gay rights movement has gone too far!” When David Starkey, for example, made his “tyrannous” remark on Question Time, it spread across Christian websites like news of the Second Coming.
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  • Not for a moment am I saying gay people are beyond criticism. But those bellowing voices of our “community” who denigrate us for wanting fair treatment or for not being “straight acting” enough merely expose their own twisted subconscious.
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    The decision to fine the Christian B&B owners for refusing to let a gay couple stay represents "a tyrannous new morality which is every bit as oppressive as the old". Children "should be raised by a man and a woman." "Being a campaigning, ardent gay is no longer necessary." And, "Imagine the demons that could plague Elton John's little boy with his unconventional parentage." Who do you think said these things? The BNP? A bishop? Muslim fundamentalists? No. You're way off. These quotes come from some of Britain's most prominent gay commentators. There were uttered or written by, respectively, historian and TV presenter David Starkey, political blogger and radio host Iain Dale, Minister for International Development Alan Duncan MP and Daily Mail columnist Andrew Pierce.
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Claws and Flaws « Guardian Watch - 0 views

  • Deborah Orr looks at why some women still don’t adopt feminism or call themselves feminists. She starts by saying that there is a myth that women reject feminism simply because it has a bad image. A kind of 80s dyke image. I agree with her point in relation to that myth, that: ‘The very fact that some feminists are so willing to accept that women don’t want the label for such superficial reasons, rather than crediting women with more profound intellectual discomfort, is an indication that even feminist attitudes can sometimes be dismissive of women and their legitimate concerns.’
  • Orr writes: ‘The fundamental and rather serious problem is the blunt and somewhat stubborn emphasis on “equality“, difficult enough in a society deeply divided by economic inequality generally, even without the added complication that it’s the people with care of children, whatever their sex, whose economic freedom is most compromised the world over.’ (my emphasis)
  • ‘Feminists (and I’m generalising here) tend towards the conclusion that women who don’t sign up are simply hostages to the tyranny of the patriarchy, whose feeble personal consciousnesses have refused to be raised.’ And, her belief that women reject feminism for more complex and thought-out reasons than mere ‘false consciousness’.
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  • One of the problems I have with feminism is the way it seems to ignore the continued importance of the ‘couple’ in society. Sure, single parents, who are more likely to be women than men, suffer economic pressures. But people in couples, when they have children, do not operate as isolated entitities.
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      But one might bear the brunt more than the other?
  • The real divisions are along class, location, cultural and age lines.
  • Orr goes on to do something I rarely see a feminist woman do, and that is she acknowledges that many of women’s advancements have been down to socio-economic change, not feminism.
  • ‘But equal opportunity in the workplace has not resulted in equal achievement, and not all of this is the fault of continuing chauvinism.’ This statement goes along with recent research, for example by Catherine Hakim, reported in her book: Feminist Myths and Magic Medicine, which shows how the fast diminishing ‘gender pay gap’ is no longer the result of discrimination, but of actual different choices and behaviours made by men and women in their jobs and careers. http://www.cps.org.uk/cps_catalog/Feminist%20Myths%20and%20Magic%20Medicine.pdf
  • Orr acknowledges that when women have children often their ‘priorities change. Work is no longer the most important thing, for a while anyway. Ambition can dissipate’. She does not ask why the same does not occur for men, or if it does, why this is not an issue for feminists.
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      Because the dominant narratives demands women to be contribute more towards the caring and well being of their children? 
  • I think feminists, deep in their subconscious, are worried that if they admit the truth that gender ‘inequality’ is not caused only and always by ‘patriarchy’ and ‘discrimination’ against women, then the whole house of cards will come tumbling down. If gender inequality is caused by a number of complex factors, and, in many instances men suffer from gender inequality (e.g. fathers, prisoners, mental health sufferers, men who don’t live as long as women or enjoy as good health as long as women), then what is this ‘feminism’ lark for exactly?
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How Divorce Lost Its Cachet - NYTimes.com - 0 views

  • The experience of being a divorced woman has changed, along with the statistics. “The No. 1 reaction I get from people when I tell them I’m getting divorced is, ‘You’re so brave,’ ” said Stephanie Dolgoff, a 44-year-old mother of two elementary-school daughters who was separated last year. “In the 1970s, when a woman got divorced, she was seen as taking back her life in that Me Decade way. Nowadays, it’s not seen as liberating to divorce. It’s scary.”
  • Ms. Coontz, whose most recent book, “A Strange Stirring: The Feminine Mystique and Women at the Dawn of the 1960s,” examines the changes in marital expectations for women, said that for many women of that earlier era: “Divorce was freedom. Many of these marriages in the ’70s were fundamentally unequal. With the women’s movements, they learned that there were alternatives, and that made divorce kind of a liberation.” But in an era of peer marriages, in which both partners are expected to contribute and truck along, that mentality appears to have diminished. As noted by the National Marriage Project study, “Highly educated Americans have moved in a more marriage-minded direction, despite the fact that historically, they have been more socially liberal.”
  • n the 1970s, “the feminists, the hippies, the protesters, the cultural elite all said, It’s O.K. to drop out.” In contrast, “We made up our minds, my brother and I and so many of the grown children of the runaway moms, that we would put our families first and ourselves second. We would be good, all the time. We would stay married, no matter what, and drink organic milk.”
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  • “One of the hardest things about divorce today is that you feel like you have to explain or apologize for it,” said Stacy Morrison, author of “Falling Apart in One Piece,” another divorce memoir. (Did anyone even write searing divorce memoirs in the ’70s?)
  • Several divorced women suggested that the news of their marital unraveling seemed to unnerve other couples in their social circles, prompting unease about their own marriages. (That anxiety may not be entirely unfounded. One study out of Harvard, Brown and the University of California, San Diego, last year found that divorce actually is contagious: when close friends break up, the odds of a marital split among their friends increase by 75 percent.)
  • “There’s a tacit or explicit recognition among well-educated parents that their kids are less likely to thrive if Mom and Dad can’t be together.” Is this, then, the revenge of the children-of-divorce generation, rebelling against the experiences of their mothers and fathers? When I asked people who divorced in their 20s and 30s while researching my 2002 book, “The Starter Marriage,” about why they divorced with such alacrity, the response was near universal: “I wanted to do it before it was too late — before we had kids.”
  • Whereas their parents were divorce pioneers in the ’70s, unsure of how marital dissolution affected children and letting caution blow in the wind, today’s splitting couples are viscerally aware of how divorce feels to a 7-year-old.
  • Dr. Monet, of Mount Holyoke, and her ex-husband eat dinner together on Fridays with their 9-year-old son and 6-year-old daughter. Birthdays and holidays are spent in each other’s company. “Once I realized that we could raise the kids together and still be a family,” said Dr. Monet, who started a blog called Postcards From a Peaceful Divorce last year, “I realized it wasn’t divorce that’s devastating, it’s the way divorce is handled.”
  • A common belief is that if the divorce is done properly, the children benefit more from the separation than from living in a family with a compromised marriage. Ms. Gilman, echoing the sentiments of many divorced mothers, said, “In the end, I actually think it was a very positive thing we did for the kids.”
  • That does not necessarily make divorced motherhood any easier. “I spent an enormous amount of energy making everything friendly and loving with my ex and his wife,” said Isabel Gillies, an actress who is following up her divorce memoir, “Happens Every Day,” with a book about divorce’s aftermath, “A Year and Six Seconds.” When her ex-husband visits their children in Manhattan from Ohio, he and his wife stay in Ms. Gillies’s apartment and she moves out. “It’s a bit more seamless than it was in the ’70s,” she said. “Instead of the kids back and forthing, we’re the ones who maneuver.”
  • In another unexpected twist, some divorced women say they detect an unspoken envy. Other wives and mothers, they explained, were “battling it out” while dealing with the unceasing tasks of wifedom, motherhood and work.
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Should drug addicts be paid to be sterilised? | Society | The Guardian - 0 views

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    "In the US, Project Prevention has been compared to the Nazis' eugenics programme, but Harris isn't bothered by her critics. "They are willing to call me Hitler, but what are they doing to help? Are they willing to adopt any of these children that they think should continue to be born? If they're not part of the solution, they're part of the problem. Everybody talks about the right of the woman - what about the rights of the children? They are the victims.""
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The Conflict by Elisabeth Badinter - review | Books | The Guardian - 0 views

  • Because natural parenting is not just a harmless folly: it can be detrimental. Having a cuddle with a newborn baby is lovely, but the weighty ideological importance placed on immediate postpartum skin-to-skin contact in forming a long-term emotional bond between mother and child can be upsetting for parents denied this opportunity by a difficult birth or sick baby. The domination of modern maternal culture by naturalist ideology can generate extreme guilt in those who do not, or cannot, live up to its high standards: the guilt of feeling like a bad or unnatural mother. Naturalism thrives on such guilt (Badinter quotes a La Leche League member's call for the shaming of women who do not breastfeed), and encourages women to equate the extent of their self-sacrifice to their success as mothers.
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    "naturalism is a philosophy, not an objective truth. Badinter describes how ethological studies (such as those conducted by primatologist Sarah Hrdy) have been driven by an ideological conviction that females, across species, possess an innate "maternal instinct". The naturalist psychologist John Bowlby has tried to show that attachment behaviours in human mothers and children are instinctive and uniquely female. The field of ecology has provided the backdrop for widespread mistrust of infantile exposure to "unnatural" substances, such as epidurals in childbirth, immunisations and chemicals in baby bottles. But there are problems. First, this research has failed to produce a clear, incontrovertible picture of what, if anything, constitutes innate or "natural" mothering behaviour. Second, it is not a given that, because something is "natural", we should submit to or encourage it (the Enlightenment's achievements were founded on attempts to control and supersede nature). And, third, there is not much evidence that the behaviours celebrated by naturalists create healthier, happier children or parents. Even claims that breastfeeding boosts immunity in industrial nations or raises IQ are not on solid ground."
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Sorry, but being a mother is not the most important job in the world | Catherine Devene... - 0 views

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    "Being a mother is not the most important job in the world. There, I said it. Nor is it the toughest job, despite what the 92% of people polled in Parents Magazine reckon. For any woman who uses that line, consider this: if this is meant to exalt motherhood, then why is the line always used to sell toilet cleaner? And if being a mother is that important, why aren't all the highly paid men with stellar careers not devoting their lives to raising children? After all, I never hear "being a father is the most important job in the world". The deification of mothers not only delegitimises the relationship fathers, neighbours, friends, grandparents, teachers and carers have with children, it also diminishes the immense worth and value of these relationships. How do gay dads feel about this line, I wonder? Or the single dads, stepdads or granddads? No matter how devoted and hard working you are, fellas, you'll always be second best."
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Quebec gave all parents cheap day care - and their kids were worse off as a result - Vox - 0 views

  • the idea that it's better for a cash-strapped parent of a young child to put the kid in a bottom-end day care program and work a low-wage job than to get financial support from the government to stay home with the kid. And it's certainly true that this kind of work-promotion strategy is better for economic growth. Both the low-wage job and the low-end day care center count as part of GDP for the purpose of measuring "the economy," whereas the labor done by full-time parents and homemakers does not. But from a social welfare perspective, the relevant issue isn't whether child care is performed as market- or non-market labor — it's whether it's performed well. At some places, it is performed well. But at others, it isn't. And programs that induce parents to be indiscriminate about child care quality — whether through the carrot of subsidized care or through the stick of benefit cutoffs — can have troubling consequences for children's long-term well-being. By contrast, research into simple cash handouts to poor families pretty consistently shows positive impacts on children and family life. Politicians looking for a quick boost to GDP or to avoid the stigma of welfare will prefer to focus on child care, but the challenge of actually delivering quality better than what parents equipped with extra resources can figure out for themselves is extremely difficult.
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    "The biggest and most direct lesson of the Quebec initiative is that creating high-quality education programs at a large scale is difficult. Over the first 10 years of the program, the number of places for kids in high-standards preschools did increase dramatically. But even so, only half of Quebec children were served by such institutions. At the same time, it turns out that low-quality child care isn't just worse than high-quality child care. It's worse than no child care"
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Outcry in America as pregnant women who lose babies face murder charges | World news | ... - 0 views

  • "If it's not a crime for a mother to intentionally end her pregnancy, how can it be a crime for her to do it unintentionally, whether by taking drugs or smoking or whatever it is," Robert McDuff, a civil rights lawyer asked the state supreme court.
  • anti-abortion groups were trying to amend the Mississippi constitution by setting up a state referendum, or ballot initiative, that would widen the definition of a person under the state's bill of rights to include a foetus from the day of conception.
  • Perhaps the most persuasive argument put forward in the amicus briefs is that if such prosecutions were designed to protect the unborn child, then they would be utterly counter-productive: "Prosecuting women and girls for continuing [a pregnancy] to term despite a drug addiction encourages them to terminate wanted pregnancies to avoid criminal penalties. The state could not have intended this result when it adopted the homicide statute."
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  • South Carolina was one of the first states to introduce such a foetal homicide law. National Advocates for Pregnant Women has found only one case of a South Carolina man who assaulted a pregnant woman having been charged under its terms, and his conviction was eventually overturned. Yet the group estimates there have been up to 300 women arrested for their actions during pregnancy.
  • Bei Bei Shuai, 34, has spent the past three months in a prison cell in Indianapolis charged with murdering her baby. On 23 December she tried to commit suicide by taking rat poison after her boyfriend abandoned her.Shuai was rushed to hospital and survived, but she was 33 weeks pregnant and her baby, to whom she gave birth a week after the suicide attempt and whom she called Angel, died after four days. In March Shuai was charged with murder and attempted foeticide and she has been in custody since without the offer of bail.
  • In Alabama at least 40 cases have been brought under the state's "chemical endangerment" law. Introduced in 2006, the statute was designed to protect children whose parents were cooking methamphetamine in the home and thus putting their children at risk from inhaling the fumes.Amanda Kimbrough is one of the women who have been ensnared as a result of the law being applied in a wholly different way. During her pregnancy her foetus was diagnosed with possible Down's syndrome and doctors suggested she consider a termination, which Kimbrough declined as she is not in favour of abortion.The baby was delivered by caesarean section prematurely in April 2008 and died 19 minutes after birth.Six months later Kimbrough was arrested at home and charged with "chemical endangerment" of her unborn child on the grounds that she had taken drugs during the pregnancy – a claim she has denied."That shocked me, it really did," Kimbrough said. "I had lost a child, that was enough."
  • Women's rights campaigners see the creeping criminalisation of pregnant women as a new front in the culture wars over abortion, in which conservative prosecutors are chipping away at hard-won freedoms by stretching protection laws to include foetuses, in some cases from the day of conception. In Gibbs' case defence lawyers have argued before Mississippi's highest court that her prosecution makes no sense. Under Mississippi law it is a crime for any person except the mother to try to cause an abortion.
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    The authors also wanted to look at issues of morality by examining children's punitive nature when confronted with mean actions. The authors clearly interpret more mercy for the guilty as a higher level of morality. But that is an ethical, and not a scientific, question. Is it really more moral to avoid punishment no matter what the circumstances? Indeed, there is a balance between punishment and mercy that all of us must consider. Some tend to err on the side of punishment and some on the side of mercy, but almost all of us will punish and almost all of us will have mercy under the right conditions. Is it moral to punish a mass murderer with a $100 fine? Most of us would consider that an injustice. Is it moral to punish a traffic ticket with a ten-year jail sentence? Most of us would consider that unmerciful. We all draw that line between mercy and justice somewhere. It seems that the authors have determined that the proper place to draw the line is closer to the mercy side. They judge the kids closest to where they will draw the line as more moral. Since at least the lead author has identified himself as secular, it is not surprising that secular children are closer to that line than religious children.
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