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Weiye Loh

Education in the Age of Outrage - The New York Times - 0 views

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    "I find myself in an educational environment in which outrage, censoring and public shaming has begun to replace critique, disagreement and debate. Public shaming always has a purpose, whether it comes from the left or right, from progressives or conservatives, activists or armchair philosophers. It may be an effective way to close down discussion, or deter others from taking certain unwanted political positions. It may also be a way to circumvent the status quo in the academy and challenge the standards of academic publishing and career advancement. But the problematic effects of public shaming are many - among them, silencing "allies," blaming individuals rather than examining social context, fostering intolerance and divisiveness, creating a "with-us-or-against-us" ethos, and reducing identity politics to a version of "oppression Olympics." "
Weiye Loh

Moral Relativism Is a Thing of the Past - The Atlantic - 0 views

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    while American college campuses were "awash in moral relativism" as late as the 1980s, a "shame culture" has now taken its place. The subjective morality of yesterday has been replaced by an ethical code that, if violated, results in unmerciful moral crusades on social media. A culture of shame cannot be a culture of total relativism. One must have some moral criteria for which to decide if someone is worth shaming. "Some sort of moral system is coming into place," Brooks says. "Some new criteria now exist, which people use to define correct and incorrect action." This system is not a reversion to the values that conservatives may wish for. America's new moral code is much different than it was prior to the cultural revolution of the 1960s and 70s. Instead of being centered on gender roles, family values, respect for institutions and religious piety, it orbits around values like tolerance and inclusion. (This new code has created a paradoxical moment in which all is tolerated except the intolerant and all included except the exclusive.)
Weiye Loh

Who Gets to Wear a Cheongsam? - Racked - 0 views

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    "Like all forms of public shaming, being accused of cultural appropriation is painful and embarrassing - and when you belong to the culture you're being accused of stealing, the shame becomes something much deeper. At its worst, such policing is just another way of enforcing the authenticity trap. It's tedious and exhausting, and those who challenge your identity are rarely looking for an answer so much as confirmation that they've guessed correctly. As a kid, my background felt like something that made me unique. As an adult, I've realized it's just something that makes me different. In Thandie Newton's 2011 TED Talk on embracing otherness, the biracial actress says that we are all born believing in a universal "sameness," but that this idea is quickly taken from us as the world starts to label us based on our differences."
Weiye Loh

Christie Blatchford: Ruling in Twitter harassment trial could have enormous fallout for... - 0 views

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    "Elliott's chief sin appears to have been that he dared to disagree with the two young feminists and political activists. He and Guthrie, for instance, initially fell out over his refusal to endorse her plan to "sic the Internet" upon a young man in Northern Ontario who had invented a violent video game, where users could punch an image of a feminist video blogger named Anita Sarkeesian until the screen turned red. Guthrie Tweeted at the time that she wanted the inventor's "hatred on the Internet to impact his real-life experience" and Tweeted to prospective employers to warn them off the young man and even sent the local newspaper in his town a link to the story about the game. Elliott disagreed with the tactic and Tweeted he thought the shaming "was every bit as vicious as the face-punch game". Until then, the two were collegial online, with Elliott offering to produce a free poster for Guthrie's witopoli (Women in Toronto Politics) group. As serious as the ramifications of a conviction could be for Elliott, so could they be dire for free speech online, Murphy suggested in his final arguments. He said the idea that all it takes to end up charged with criminal harassment is vigorous participation in online debate with those who will not brook dissent "will have a chilling effect on people's ability to communicate, and not just on Twitter". In fact, Murphy said that contrary to what Guthrie and Reilly testified to at trial, they weren't afraid of his client - as suggested by both their spirited demeanour in the witness box and their deliberate online campaign to call Elliott out as a troll. TwitterA screenshot of Gregory Elliott's Twitter page. Rather, Murphy said, they hated Elliott and were determined to silence him - not just by "blocking" his Tweets to them, but by demanding he cease even referring to them even in making comment about heated political issues. To all this, Guthrie pointed out once in cross-examination t
Weiye Loh

'Sexist trousers' spark Twitter row - Telegraph - 0 views

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    Madhouse, a nationwide chain of discount men's clothing stores, was branded "shameful" and "outrageous" by hundreds of Twitter users yesterday, because of the label's washing instructions to 'Give it to your woman'. The beige pair of chinos in question were purchased in London at Madhouse's flagship Oxford Street store last month. The incident shows the power of Twitter to embarrass companies which make such gaffes. Last year, Topman was forced to apologise and remove a range of t-shirts from shelves after Twitter users said they were sexist. One t-shirt said: "Nice new girlfriend - what breed is she?" Vanessa Truskey, a publicity executive, commenting on the Madhouse trouser label, tweeted: "Lately I can't tell which decade I'm living in. What brand are those trousers?! I can only assume that's a joke."
Weiye Loh

A surprisingly difficult question for Facebook: Do I have boobs now? | Technology | The... - 0 views

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    Being unable to go comfortably topless in public may not seem important, Demone says, but, speaking to the Guardian, she says: "It's a clear example of the sexism that comes with living in a female body. "So at what point in my breast development do I need to start covering my nipples? I already feel shameful about them being visible, but at what point does society say it's unacceptable for them to be out?"
Weiye Loh

Free speech has not been "canceled" - Vox - 0 views

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    "The real debate here is not about the principle of free speech, but the much grayer question of how we draw its boundaries. What kinds of speech should be morally out of bounds? What sorts of speakers should be excluded from major platforms? When can giving a platform to one kind of person actually make it harder for other people to speak their minds freely? And what kinds of social sanctions, like public shaming or firing, are justified responses to violations of these social norms? Once we see that these are the issues we're actually discussing, it becomes clear that "cancel culture" is not the existential threat to free expression it's made out to be. "
Weiye Loh

Feminism in the 21st century | Zoe Williams | Books | The Guardian - 0 views

  • The patriarchy isn't going to smash itself, to paraphrase Habermas (sort of), but nor is it so entrenched that it cannot be overturned by sustained, informed argumentation. This accounts for the huge advances that feminism has made – consider the daunting economic inequality that has been tackled in the past four decades, the astonishing speed of equal pay legislation across Europe and indeed the world. But it also accounts for the relatively meagre differences wrought in the arena of sexuality, because the epistemic community isn't there, the argument was never sustained.
  • Female sexuality needs women to talk about sex, intelligently, out loud and in public (not just on Mumsnet) or it will forever remain a source of shame.
Weiye Loh

The Illiberal Persecution of Tim Hunt - Reason.com - 0 views

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    The response to Hunt is way more archaic than what Hunt said. Sure, his views might be a bit pre-women's lib, pre-1960s. But the tormenting and sacking of people for what they think and say is pre-modern. It's positively Inquisitorial. The irony is too much to handle: Hunt is railed against for expressing an old-fashioned view, yet the railers against him do something infinitely more old-fashioned: they expel from public life someone they judge to have committed heresy. Kick him out. Strip him of his titles. Mock his misfortune. "Savour the moment." How awfully ironic that the Royal Society, which played a key role in propelling Britain from medievalism to modernity, is now being asked to behave in a medieval fashion and send into the academic wilderness a heretic among its number
Weiye Loh

SlutWalk: a celebration of the right to be slutty even when you aren't | New Nation - 0 views

  • various angry feminists groups and hardworking researchers have shown that rapists in fact, don’t give a hoot about their victims’ getup at all. So a protest for the right to dress like a slut without the fear of being raped, makes no sense either. All women – skanky or not – have an equal chance of being raped.
  • if the photos plastered online were any indication – a fair bit of SlutWalkers don’t exactly qualify as sluts. So unless these wholesome voluptious women with no business showing their overflowing bits in a overly-tight bra top out in public HAVE actually been called a slut previously, their protest to be called a slut without shame makes no sense. Like a meat-eating person joining PETA. To put it more crudely: Put on some better fitting clothes woman. No one’s calling you a slut. And while you’re at it, get some higher-cut jeans too, your ass crack is showing.
  • Going by the previous SlutWalks, it’s probably going to be an occasion for women to turn up in their undies without fear of being judged by their sexual un-attractiveness as they rally together in a common message: the right to be respected no matter what.
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  • Oddly enough, he points out that "rapists in fact, don’t give a hoot about their victims’ getup at all". I'm glad we're in agreement here, great research, yay! Yet he smugly follows with, "So a protest for the right to dress like a slut without the fear of being raped, makes no sense either." If this isn't confusion, I don't know what it is (especially for someone who claims to have read SlutWalk's aims? Tsk). SlutWalkers don't claim that women who dress provocatively are *more* likely to be raped - that erroneous claim is precisely what they are protesting against, in light of people, even the New York Times, implying that people are raped because of their clothing. SlutWalk isn't about being proud to be slutty, in the misogynistic derogatory sense, as the author predictably interprets it. Speaking out against victim-blaming aside, it attempts to collectively invalidate and neutralise the meaning of the insult, making it meaningless through ubiquity. Of course, this approach is contestable, seeing as it so easily opens itself up to misunderstanding, displayed aptly in this article.
Weiye Loh

Get your politics off my grief: After my abortion, neither pro-life nor pro-choice forc... - 0 views

  • After my procedure, relief washed over me - just as I had read it would, in a report from the Guttmacher Institute, an offshoot of Planned Parenthood. Yet it was the kind of relief I have felt after losing someone to a prolonged battle with cancer: grateful the suffering had ended, but sorry my loved one had to go.At first, I sought refuge in the pro-choice movement. In finding a community, I was coping. Our communication, however, sounded a little more like war rhetoric than sharing in a common bond. I heard myself sounding like a bumper sticker. "Fight for choice!" I hollered, as if war has ever been the answer.Emotions, I learned, could be regarded as a chink in the pro-choice armor. Pro-lifers have long hyped "post-abortion syndrome," a condition the American Psychological Association continues to refute. As recently as January, a Danish research team reconfirmed that there is no evidence of an increased rate of mental illness after the procedure.But three years after my abortion, I started having nightmares about babies. Awake, I missed my potential child. It was bewildering that I could feel so mournful about a decision that was supposed to buttress the architecture of my identity.
  • It felt traitorous to admit that, far from thinking I had expelled a "blob of cells," I now wondered who that person I aborted would have been. Mental illness or not, having the blues seemed to insult my foremothers, who fought not just for my right to end a pregnancy, but for my right to vote, to attend college, to wear a godforsaken pair of pants. I shut up about my feelings because I valued my community, but my community was unsupportive - suspicious, even - of my gloom.
  • I then attended, of all things, a Catholic retreat called Rachel's Vineyard, one of the few services for people who need to address their terminations. An alumna "leery of religious concepts" had reassured me with her fulsome brochure blurb, but at the retreat, politics again prevailed, this time from the other side.Facilitators encouraged us to approach Congress with our stories of how the "abortion mills hurt us." We then gathered around a grainy video about post-abortion syndrome. I knew that studies "proving" the ailment had methodological flaws, but to my surprise, I exhibited some of the symptoms: depression, longing for the lost and, yes, bitterness. An online search revealed that signs of the discredited "syndrome" overlapped with a medically recognized state called complicated grief. By distributing false information and making us their political instruments, the facilitators sure had a funny way of helping.
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  • Apparently, to feel troubled after ending a pregnancy was either reason to challenge public policy or an indignity so atypical that it should be ignored or even denied.
  • Shortly after Rachel's Vineyard, I happened upon a third, more inclusive, movement. In 2005, Oakland-based Aspen Baker founded a movement called "pro-voice," guided by the simple notion that the women who actually have had an abortion should lead the public discussion. Pro-voice does not give abortion rights thumbs up or down, relying instead on the implicit power of unique narratives to change the culture around this issue.I'm a believer.Contorting rich experiences and complex emotions into partisan slogans shames women who do not "feel" within their political lines, separating us into distinct, sometimes-opposing groups that struggle to relate to one another. Pro-voice is an antidote to the alienating ills of America's abortion culture.Here's a right I'd march for: the right to wail myself to sleep, to yearn for my long gone baby, yet to know that I needed to delay parenthood. Transcending heartache is possible as long as I keep my story unabridged - and out of the political sphere.
Weiye Loh

Holding slut-callers to account « Yawning Bread on Wordpress - 0 views

  • What’s wrong with the above? Everything! If I have to spell it out, It tramples on women’s sexual autonomy by laying on thick the negativity associated with promiscuity; It reserves to men the right to judge which women qualify for the label; It asserts that other women have no business contesting (1) and (2) above.
  • – newnation.sg, 4 September 2011, SlutWalk: a celebration of the right to be slutty even when you aren’t by Fang Shihan (which I am told is a pseudonym for a female writer passing off as male).
  • feminism has long been bedevilled by sex. Many feminists speak of gender equality without wanting to touch the subject of sexual freedom. They’re strong on the right of women to say No, but cannot shake off negative attitudes against those frequently saying Yes.  In this, they are in the same bed as lots of patriarchal men.
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