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How Does an "I" Become an "I"? - 7 views

started by Joe Bennett on 28 Oct 14
  • Joe Bennett
     
    The I becomes an I only through a You.
    (Healing Through Paradoxical Intention)
  • Mingaile Taber
     
    Could you please explain this one or give an example?

    For me, it is very vague statement linguistically, it leaves a lot of room for many different interpretations. I'd like to get the right meaning. Sorry, my English is not perfect.

    Thank you!
  • Joe Bennett
     
    The statement is deliberately designed to be a bit confusing - it is a paradox.

    It is essentially saying the you< as a person< only get to know yourself (become an "I") through your encounters with another. Without your encounters with other people you don't truly become who you were meant to be.

    Thomas Merton said it this way - "No Man is an Island". He also wrote a book about it.

    Does that make sense?
  • Brian Suszek
     
    Excellent explanation!
  • Mingaile Taber
     
    Yes, thank you!

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