1. Don't try to be perfect. Do try to be better. 2. Don't use the vocabulary - "the box', and so on - with people who don't already know it. Do use the principles in your own life. 3. Don't look for others boxes. Do look for your own. 4. Don't accuse others of being in the box. Do try to stay out of the box yourself. 5. Don't give up on yourself when you discover you've been in the box. Do keep trying. 6. Don't deny that you've been in the box when you have been. Do apologize; then just keep marching forward, trying to be more helpful to others in the future. 7. don't focus on what others are doing wrong. Do focus on what you can do right to help. 8. Don't worry whether others are helping you. Do worry whether you are helping others.
2. Don't use the vocabulary - "the box', and so on - with people who don't already know it. Do use the principles in your own life.
3. Don't look for others boxes. Do look for your own.
4. Don't accuse others of being in the box. Do try to stay out of the box yourself.
5. Don't give up on yourself when you discover you've been in the box. Do keep trying.
6. Don't deny that you've been in the box when you have been. Do apologize; then just keep marching forward, trying to be more helpful to others in the future.
7. don't focus on what others are doing wrong. Do focus on what you can do right to help.
8. Don't worry whether others are helping you. Do worry whether you are helping others.
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