Is Empathy Overrated? | Big Think - 0 views
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Empathy seems to be a quality you can never overdo. It’s like a megavitamin of emotionally relating: the more you display, the better a human you are.
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Empathy is the act of coming to experience the world as you think someone else does … If your suffering makes me suffer, if I feel what you feel, that’s empathy in the sense that I’m interested in here.
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For example, donating to foreign charities ups our dopamine intake—we feel better because we’re making a difference (which, of course, can make it more about how we feel than who we’re helping).
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Yet it’s not in our biological inheritance to offer unchecked empathy. Bloom points to our tribal nature as evidence. We’re going to care more for those closest to us, such as family and friends, then Cambodian orphans.
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Anyone who thinks that it’s important for a therapist to feel depressed or anxious while dealing with depressed or anxious people is missing the point of therapy.
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Bloom then discusses the difference between what Binghamton professor and Asian Studies scholar Charles Goodman describes as “sentimental compassion” and “great compassion.” The first is similar to empathy, which leads to imbalances in relationships and one’s own psychological state. Simply put, it’s exhausting.
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Empathy is going to be a buzzword for some time to come. It feeds into our social nature, which Bloom sees nothing wrong with.
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I found this article very interesting as it talks about how empathy as a emotion is sometimes bad for us. I really like the point when the author mention that the empathy is not in our biological inheritance because our tribal nature is to care more for those closest to us. It is very interesting to think how our modern society shapes our emotions and behavior, and how empathy is gradually becoming our nature. --Sissi (2/22/2017)