Wired interview with Sherry Turkle about her new book "Alone Together." What she is talking about here (though she does not say it explicitly) is the need for fluency - to know when and why to use digital technology as opposed to just how and what.
Sherry Turkle on the Colbert Report. I will be reading the book soon, but i presume that digitally fluent folks know how to "put technology back in its place."