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Single-Child Families on the Rise - FamilyEducation.com - 0 views

  • "More often than not, only children will prefer the company of adults and view other children as loose cannons. They command a great deal of attention from adults, and if a parent doesn't know how to get that under control, they'll be at the mercy of that child."
  • On the other hand, White notes, parents of only children also need to learn to leave their only offspring alone.
  • On the plus side, the extra time only children spend interacting with adults frequently gives them a leg up academically and socially.
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  • "Only children also feel friendships much more deeply,"
  • "They develop very fierce loyalties, because their friendships fulfill the need to have a sibling."
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Cost to Raise a Child: Around $300,000, Not Including College - Real Time Economics - WSJ - 0 views

  • Middle-income parents who welcomed a new child last year can expect to spend
  • nearly $300,000 over the next 17 years,
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Social Psychologist, Parenting Expert and Author - Susan Newman Ph.D. » Only ... - 0 views

  • Myth: Only children are dependent. Fact: Because of adult guidance and lack of siblings to lean on, only children are more self-reliant and independent than those who have brothers and sisters to fend for them.
  • Myth: Only children become too mature too quickly. Fact: Children with siblings relate and talk to their siblings rather than their parents. The only child’s primary role models are parents. The result is that only children copy adult behavior as well as adult speech patterns and develop good reasoning skills early on making them better equipped to handle the ups and downs of growing up. A good thing, for sure. Myths die hard and slowly.
  • Myth: Only children are aggressive and bossy. Fact: Only children learn quickly that attempting to run the show, a ploy that they may get away with at home, doesn’t work with friends and a bossy, aggressive attitude is a quick ticket to ostracism from the group. Lacking siblings, only children want to be included and well liked. Myth: All only children have imaginary companions to compensate for their loneliness. Fact: There is no scientific evidence. Jerome Singer, Ph.D., professor of psychology and child study at Yale University, confirms that the imagination required to create make-believe friends “is not the exclusive property of the ‘only’ child, the isolated, the ill or the handicapped. Imaginary friends serve a purpose of meeting a need—to confront loneliness, to combat a fear, or to compensate for feelings of weakness in relation to adults or older children.” Any child can feel that need.
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  • Myth: Only children are spoiled. Fact: Being spoiled is a reflection of our society. The Chinese feared they were raising a generation of “little emperors” when their only child policy was in effect. Looking back 30 years later researchers have found that only children are not particularly spoiled and found no difference in only children’s relationships with friends when studied with children who had siblings.
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Only-Child Myths Persist As More Parents Choose One Kid - TIME - 0 views

  • the U.S. Department of Agriculture reports that the average child in the U.S. costs his or her parents about $286,050 — before college.
Abria Stewart

Susan Newman: The Case for the Only Child | Psychology Today - 0 views

  • According to the Department of Agriculture, families with an average income between roughly $57,000 and $98,000 will spend a little over $286,000 to rear one child from birth through age seventeen-college not included
  • Lacking siblings, only children want to be included and well liked.
  • Children with siblings often have more "who is the boss" difficulties because they are forced to share toys and other possessions, television time, and parents.
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