Remember those moments when you just don’t feel like doing a task, but you know you have to?
Contrary to many Vince Lombardi-type motivations, willpower is more like an energy that can be depleted. Willpower is a finite resource. It works in cycles; it is something that you build on and know when to maximize.
As psychologist Roy Baumeister and science writer John Tierney pointed out in their Willpower book, it works a lot like a muscle. Like a muscle, it can get tired and need recovery.
It also needs to be nourished. It is affected by a lot of factors such as stress, physical health, and nutrition. In other words, your “spirit can be willing but the flesh is spongy and bruised.”
1.) DEFINING WHAT MOTIVATES YOU
f there is no underlying passion and serious motivation behind a goal, temptations can easily power their way against you.
.) DIVIDING YOUR GOALS INTO SMALLER PIECES
Starting is actually the secret to accomplishing a lot of things. Just by starting, somehow you are compelled to continue on.
3.) GRADUAL PROGRESSION & ACCUMULATING POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT
4.) YOUR HEALTH MATTERS
5.) WORK ON YOUR EMOTIONAL BLOCKAGES
Find that breakthrough and learn why, at times, you may feel like it doesn’t matter.
blog post from ProjectManBeyond, Self-Evolution for Men, posted 2/26/2016 with excellent ideas for growing willpower to do the things important to you. each essay offers a read time, ex. 7 minutes. By Mac Rivera, founder of a site for advanced self-development