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  #1 Larkin Ferguson on 06 Jan 14

   

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  After his father-in-law died his wife returned home and he lost his job - as did many of his colleagues - and his wife decided she no longer desired to remain married. What else could go wrong? OH! Of course! His father might be identified as having cancer: H-e was.
  
  Today he's living a complete hell, with all this uncertainty, and two nice children seeking to him for balance. Can it be any wonder that people are breaking beneath the stress?
  
  He's on their own and he tries to become 'emotionally together' but that only triggers more harm than good. We (community), within our requirement for order and security, don't need people with all these problems in our lives. We don't want them employed in our company. They are broken!
  
  Well, the fact remains, our (society) expectations around emotional intelligence, and together, full-functioning people, is what is breaking them.
  
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