Pick a day and time that is significant to you, perhaps a festival of the
turning year, a phase of the moon applicable to what you know of the deity from
your research. Use astrological attributes, solar and stellar movements. Immerse
yourself in your desire to know them, loose yourself in small rites and rituals
that lead up to the big day. On the day itself take yourself to a place where
you will not be disturbed for at least an hour. If you have, take with you a
drawing or sculpture you have created to express the deity, or anything that
pertains to your connection so far. Be confident that you will meet your deity
and connect to it.