On average, patients spend about five years in institutional care, but that number is falling as people go to long-term care later and sicker. Instead, they require home care, which is also costly, and can be a great strain on family caregivers.
No one wants to live in longterm care or a nursing home - or so goes the commonly held belief. What people fear is warehousing and loss of dignity, as exemplified by the notion that they won't even get bathed.
The reality is that, despite some highly publicized abuses, long-term care homes do not deserve the horrible reputation they are saddled with: Most do a decent job of caring for their charges, given the challenges they face and the resources they have.
But the broader problem with long-term care, as with much public policy related to seniors, is that there is no plan.
If we're going to deliver necessary, appropriate care for the aging population of baby boomers, we have to start with a cold, hard calculus of the cost of meeting (or not meeting) those needs. If we want quality care, we're going to have to pay for it, individually and collectively. Getting the right mix of private and public spending is key to ensure no one is left out in the cold.