“It’s like I can distantly read everyone’s mind,” Haley went on to say.
It can also lead to more real-life contact, because when one member of Haley’s group decides to go out to a bar or see a band and Twitters about his plans, the others see it, and some decide to drop by — ad hoc, self-organizing socializing.
But it’s easy to tweet all the time, to post pictures of what I’m doing, to keep social relations up.” She paused for a second, before continuing: “Things like Twitter have actually given me a much bigger social circle. I know more about more people than ever before.”
The rest are weak ties — maintained via technology.
Remote acquaintances will be much more useful, because they’re farther afield, yet still socially intimate enough to want to help you out.
If you’re reading daily updates from hundreds of people about whom they’re dating and whether they’re happy, it might, some critics worry, spread your emotional energy too thin, leaving less for true intimate relationships.
“They can observe you, but it’s not the same as knowing you.”