How to Get a Girl to Like You: 16 steps (with pictures) - wikiHow - 0 views
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lonewar T. on 05 Dec 12Sorry, but anyone can explain the 5th tip please?
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Nice girls normally need longer time than boys to develop deep feelings
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Continue courting her by following the steps above, but don't rush things.
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Do the chase slowly and gently (but steadily) to reduce fear of sexual advances (if any), avoid looking desperate, and to allow her to get accustomed to a new man in her life
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Do not force the relationship
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carefully look for clues on where and when you can see her again
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Once you feel comfortable, invite her to go somewhere or to do something with you
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Make sure it's something that you're both interested in.
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If you want, show her your world.
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Bring her somewhere that you feel comfortable and preferably, where you have or do something you're proud of.
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Is she a musician? Ask if you can see her perform
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Alternatively, you can express interest in seeing her world
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If you aren't yet ready or comfortable with the idea of sharing your personal lives to that extent, just go out for lunch or do something simple together where you can get to know her better.
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keep things personal rather than generic
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make an effort to say more rather than less
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Women want to feel important and valued
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Think about what really gets that special someone excited.
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Recognize what makes her unique; find and do things that only she would appreciate.
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Pay attention when she's talking
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Keep a mental list of things that she loves and that make her unique
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What are her quirky (perhaps secret) interests, obsessions and fantasies?
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Girls are quick to notice if you remember things they told you a long while ago.
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Tell her what you really enjoy in life, what gets you excited and find out what gets her excited
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Be positive. If you had a bad day, still greet her pleasantly with a big smile
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Most importantly, listen to everything she says
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pay attention
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Nod to show that you're listening, and also respond to what she says so she knows that you really are listening. Women are very appreciative of guys who demonstrate sincere interest in what they say.
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You are unique. Be the authentic you. Bring out your best. Let her know you as who you truly are
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If you love science, music, poetry, politics, or sports, let her know what you love.
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The right woman will fall for you and love you just the way you are
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Be honest. Never lie to a girl just to impress her.
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Don't be afraid to smile.
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A girl likes a guy who is true to himself
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Pretending to conform to an image in an attempt to impress her will instead make it more difficult for her to trust you when she finds out, which will happen eventually.
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open doors for her
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pull a chair out for her to sit (or the whole "laying your jacket over a puddle" thing).
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Pull out her chair, let her get seated, and then go sit down
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Open the door for her, continue listening if she's talking, and come in after her
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Continue with what you were doing. If she does thank you, just nod and smile or say "My pleasure." No big deal.
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it's an urban myth that most girls like "bad boys" best
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If you try to be a sweet rather than "bad" guy, you will have longer lasting relationships that are strong, too!
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If you know her birthday, maybe you could bring her a gift card for her favorite store
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that new scarf you've heard her talking about with her friends
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Just the fact that you 1) remembered her birthday and 2) brought her a gift will make you stick out as a sweet guy in her mind.
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Take the the lead in your courtship.
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initiate the date
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decide what to do during the date
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decide when to end the date
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one useful personal interest, or two to three useful personal interests or hobbies written in you own words
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To be able to call a girl at will to your place, you need to improve the quality of your work and property, and have your business or career already running.
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All-out date activities are not just cute, but show your date if you really did spend the afternoon preparing things for the date.
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you are finding out if your relationship will work for your whole life. If you both go into a relationship like that, whatever happens will be best for both of you.
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Don’t talk about dates you have had with other people, especially on a first date. You can find better, kinder things to talk about.
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Try not to compare her with other girls you have been on dates with, even in your mind
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Don’t talk about yourself the whole time
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People have a tendency to talk about themselves too much, especially when they are nervous
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If you feel like you need to say something, ask a question instead. Remember to listen as much as you speak
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Remember that if she doesn’t fall for you, it's not a failure; you will learn more about yourself and eventually you will find the woman you are meant to be with.
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But as you become a better person, you will find you attract more people to you.
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As you approach her don't point your body towards her she will see this as you being needy.
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Try to be a little more casual at first.
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Body odor and uncleanliness are universal turn-offs
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That includes bad breath, flatulence, burping, and foot odor
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Shower and brush your teeth daily (right before you see her is ideal)
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trim your nails, and wash your clothes and shoes regularly.
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Some girls find the smell of cigarette smoke or strong cologne offensive.
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If you're trying to find out if, in fact, she does like you, ask one of her friends.
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Never try to make her jealous
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This tends to backfire on the guy who does this
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Or compare how she acts around you and around other guys. If she acts differently around you, then something is there. Trust your instincts. If you believe there's good chemistry between you and her, be patient and let it develop
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Do not tell or show her about your current and past dates with other women even if she asks over and over again
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looking and showing interest by you in other beauties in a restaurant in front of her can be seen as inconsiderate and insensitive, so focus your eyes and effort only on her on this date.
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Nobody is perfect. Accept that both of you have flaws, make mistakes, and sometimes have bad days.
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Don't tell her dirty jokes; it's rude
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It's guaranteed that 99 percent of girls out there won't appreciate you cracking up about your body parts and stuff like that
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They'll just think you're disgusting and immature and stay away from you.
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Don't stalk her
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If she doesn't want to date, it means that she doesn't want a stalker either.
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If you have her street address and you live in the same city, never ask personal questions be email. Do not use contact methods that can be easily falsified.
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Always do the chase, courtship or ask personal questions in person (face to face) when you have the ability to do so
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Don't be too perverted when flirting
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It could be a sign that you want her body and not her.
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A lot of girls don't like it when boys are all gross and talk about body parts
