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ailawyer123 on 29 Nov 24The author, recently diagnosed with stage IV cancer at 32, reflects on the sacrifices made for their legal career. They acknowledge the weight loss and fatigue they attributed to the demanding job, never considering a serious illness despite lacking traditional risk factors. Regret sets in as they contemplate lost friendships, missed trips, and strained relationships due to their relentless work schedule. Working long hours with the promise of a future with more free time after paying off loans, a goal achieved just a year ago, now feels like a hollow victory. While finding pride in helping others through their legal work, anger simmers at the immense cost. The author hasn't informed their parents yet, anticipating their usual joking response about the rarity of their calls. The purpose of sharing their story? A cautionary tale for others to prioritize a healthy work-life balance. This career, like many others, will consume as much time and energy as you allow, and reclaiming that balance is a difficult feat. Make those calls to loved ones, schedule doctor appointments, take vacations - create space for the other aspects of life that bring fulfillment. Edit: The author expresses gratitude for the well-wishes received during a dark time. While some advice, like using meth, was a humorous outlier, all messages were appreciated. They've quit their job, moved in with their parents to rebuild the relationship, and will begin treatment next week. Travel is a possibility after the initial treatment cycle. The message remains the same: make time for the things that truly matter. Links: Lawyer AI Assistant App (Android): https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.attorney.ai.assistant Lawyer AI Assistant App (iOS): https://apps.apple.com/us/app/id6478375502
