Paul, of the bible, really had it all figured out in the area of comparing. In Philippians 4:11, he says "not that I was ever in need, for I have learned how to be content with whatever I have."
Are you exhausted, worn out, and anxious from trying to keep up with a false set of expectations? God wants to give you rest. "Let my soul be at rest again, for the Lord has been good to me" Psalm 116:7. God can't love you anymore than he already does. Be still. Stop trying to reach a standard that He did not even create for you. Comparing ourselves to others is futile.