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ashley kate

The risks of surrogate motherhood | Surrogate Motherhood - 1 views

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    A woman must fully comprehend what it means to be a surrogate mother. She needs to know what her body will go through, what the couple she is working for will expect of her while she is carrying their child and what the risks are in all of this. A woman may enjoy the idea of being pregnant and carrying a child but she must think of the risks of surrogate motherhood before she embarks on such a long journey. One of the risks involved in surrogate motherhood is the pregnancy itself. A natural pregnancy is dangerous; let alone an artificial one. Complications happen that can't always be avoided. It is simple fate that may lead you to miscarry, or acquire health problems from the pregnancy. Though using a surrogate motherhood agency is the safest way to go, no one can promise you that there will be no complications. If and when you are pregnant with someone else's child, you are responsible for taking care of it while in your womb. What you eat, drink and take into your body will affect the child. Not everyone has the self discipline to take their vitamins every day or not smoke a cigarette. If something happens and the child is born with a problem that could possibly be because of you and what you did to your body during pregnancy, then you will be investigated. It may not have been your fault, but if the possibility exists then the agency has to look into it. When you get into surrogate motherhood, you become business partners with the parents of the child for the duration of the pregnancy. There is no backing out. If the couple that you chose turns out to be mean or irresponsible, you are stuck with them until the baby is born. This is especially dangerous if you are not using a surrogate agency. If the couple skips town, you won't be taken care of and will be stuck with a baby to raise. What happens if the child is born with some kind of deformity or disease? The parents may not want the child. So then, is it you that takes care of it? Is it put up for a
ashley kate

Surrogacy - A Private Arrangement Versus an Agency Facilitated Arrangement - 0 views

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    There are pros and cons to both sides of this argument. With the private arrangement, you will first of all need to find your surrogate mother. This is usually much easier done through an agency, as all surrogate mothers to be will have been screened and will have gone through a comprehensive health screening. Also, all of the surrogate mothers with an agency will have had psychological screenings to guarantee the fact that they will be able to deal with the very strong emotions that will be coursing around their bodies during the pregnancy. Unless, of course, your surrogate mother is a relative or close friend of the family in which case it would seem to be a lot easier. Ethics, moral code and emotions will still loom large in all of the concerned parties worlds. So it would still be wise to involve an attorney and legal contracts so that everyone knows exactly where they stand, and what is expected of them. In most countries and states legal and binding contracts written up by attorneys, are needed by the parents to be anyway. As they are going to have to be legally adopting the child everything, will need to be written clearly and legally about the birth and how it came about. Very often during the pregnancy the doctors and nurses will need to know why there are two women, one pregnant, the other not, and very often two fathers who are so interested in this one child. If you have gone through an agency, they will be able to advise you on what to do and say in this situation. If you are sorting out surrogacy arrangements privately then yes but if anything unexpected should happen and you are unable to deal with the problems there is a reasonable chance you will end up wishing you had gone to the agency. Agencies do have trained professionals that can help you with all of the different issues that are involved in surrogacy. From the emotional feeling of all parties, the majority of agencies will have counselors who can help you work your way through any difficul
ashley kate

The Risks of Surrogate Motherhood and How to Deal With Them - 0 views

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    A surrogate mother often faces criticism and judgment from others for the choice she have made. However, those are less problematic when compare to the risks that she takes for her own family, friends and spouse. These risks can be daunting and cause challenges she might not have considered before getting involved. These risks can be anything from medical and health concerns to finances and job security and often family and personal risks as well. Medical risk is a huge factor, when a woman becomes a surrogate often times, she and the donors would have to undergo intense examination. These exams range from blood, health tests to the initial process of the implanting of the eggs from the donor. In the beginning the clinic will bring her and the egg donor together to begin a lengthy process of sequencing ovulation cycles. The clinic would put the surrogate mother on birth control and steroids, such as Luprin. These medications are meant to get both the surrogate mother and the donor's cycles on the same schedule. This is crucial because the surrogates' uterus needs to be ready for the embryos. Just having to deal with the pain of insemination and testing can be unbearable, not to mention the unpleasant side effects from all the medication and actual insemination process. However, that is just part of it. The surrogates are also faced with depression, sleep disturbance, guilt and the difficulty to remain unattached. These factors alone cause many surrogates to face the fact that they are walking a long road that not many others might have the strength to do. Many clinics offer support groups and counseling. Aside from medical and emotional risks, there might also be legality issues with the laws of the state they reside in. What kind of laws protect the surrogate, what rights does she have to things such as privacy? And there are also finances to consider. Generally, surrogate mothers are responsible for all insurance costs. As a surrogate you should be financially
thepeachygirls

What is Normal Breastfeeding? | Peachymama - 0 views

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    Being a new mum comes with a set of new questions and concerns, with some of the most common being about breastfeeding. Is my baby eating enough? Long enough? And what is this I heard about my baby sleeping through the night by 3 months?
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    Being a new mum comes with a set of new questions and concerns, with some of the most common being about breastfeeding. Is my baby eating enough? Long enough? And what is this I heard about my baby sleeping through the night by 3 months?
ashley kate

History of Surrogate Motherhood - 0 views

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    The history of surrogate motherhood goes back to biblical times. In fact, some people say it dates back to Sarah and Abraham. Certain people say that it started even before them, and that it is only recorded about Abraham because he was written about in the Bible. In many countries, surrogacy has been around since before records. Many cultures have belief systems that abide with the rules of surrogacy and those that do not agree can be thrown out of their families. Numerous religions and civilizations will actually celebrate the surrogate mothers, for their good deeds and service to others. During the 1980's surrogate mothers were used by the gay community to build their families, then, it was frowned upon by society. The American Indians were the first ones to truly begin the surrogate mother history in this part of the world. So we are looking back to the 1899's for the beginning of this part of the story. If an Indian woman was found to be infertile, then her husband would go to the chief of his tribe and ask for help. He would then be sent to see the medicine man, who would give the wife certain herbal concoctions. Then, after the witch doctor said nothing could be done to help his wife, the husband would go to see the chief. He would be allowed to take another woman and make her pregnant, hopefully, so that he would be able to father a son to carry on his tribe. The barren wife would have no relations with the child. He would stay with his birth mother. The American Indians were not the only civilization to use surrogate mothers to carry on the family name and bloodline. Back in recent European history it has been heard of, especially in Spain for kings to take in several surrogate mothers until he was born a son. The surrogate mother of the child would then become nanny to all of the royal children. The children would believe themselves to be genetically related to the king and queen. Never knowing the truth. Obviously, things like this were kept secret, bec
ashley kate

How much does the process of surrogate pregnancy cost? | Surrogate Motherhood - 0 views

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    When a couple cannot have children, they may look into the cost of using a surrogate mother. The details for this are very extensive. There are so many scenarios that can play out that it is impossible to give a solid figure. We can, however, look at the general costs of surrogate pregnancy and some possible extra costs.The fee paid to the surrogate mother can vary. The average rate however is a flat fee of $18,000. Some woman will do it for less and some experienced surrogate mothers will ask for more. This does not include any medical bills or food and vitamins. If at 13 weeks the ultra sound shows that the surrogate mother is having multiple children, there will be an extra fee of $5,000 dollars. There will be contracts drawn up for both parties to sign which means there will be lawyers to pay. Legal fees come to about $5,000. The surrogate mother will need to have a psychological evaluation which costs around $500. With pregnancy comes a bigger body and maternity clothes. Maternity clothes usually run you $750. The surrogate mother will have to drive herself or take a bus to the doctor's appointments. She is typically reimbursed 50.5 cents a mile. Any extra, invasive procedures, like Cerclage, DNC, Amniocentesis or FUC can be another $500. If you are going with the gestational surrogating, transfer will run you $750. Insemination for traditional surrogating costs $500 IN a case where a surrogate mother becomes pregnant with more then one fetus inside her, there is something called selective reduction. This operation removes the extra fetuses, leaving only one. The operation fee is $2,000. If at some point both the surrogate mother and couple decide to abort the child, the fee is $2,000. If a C-Section is involved, this will be another $1,500. If there is a canceled cycle fee then you will pay $350. Often times a Mock cycle will be given. This is to test the surrogate's eggs to see if all will go well. The fee is $350. When the surrogate mother gets
Vaughn Tobes

Know the Secrets with Phone Spy Software - Technology - Cell Phones - 0 views

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    The use of a phone spy is very powerful, and it's use should be taken with great care. So, with a fast paced life and busy schedule, it becomes quite tough or inappropriate to pursue your employees or even your family members or persons in close contacts. The current environment is full of suspicion and one can not afford to trust one and might want to keep each detail about them without giving them a chance to do something unfavorable.
ahmad musofa

Starting Solid Foods Baby With Led Weaning - 0 views

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    Introducing solid foods to your baby is one thing that has to do with motherhood. Solid food is a source of nutrition for the baby's needs are no longer rely on breast milk as a source of food. There are several ways to wean solid foods to baby. Mom can use to process solid food into mush, providing him with a spoon and more. There is one popular method is being used and many mom turns to this method, the method is Led weaning.
Stephanie Sandifer

Read-Aloud With Your Children : UBAM Young Readers Blog - 0 views

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    If you aren't familiar with the book "The Read-Aloud Handbook: Sixth Edition" by Jim Trelease, you could be missing some valuable information about how to read aloud with your child in a way that fosters their own reading ability.
Think Inc

10 Ways to handle Sibling Rivalry - 0 views

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    When a child is born, it fills the house with love and laughter. As he grows with tender love and care from the parents and family, it becomes the central point of every activity. Parents try their best to ensure that its needs and interests are at the heart of everything the family does.
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    When a child is born, it fills the house with love and laughter. As he grows with tender love and care from the parents and family, it becomes the central point of every activity. Parents try their best to ensure that its needs and interests are at the heart of everything the family does.
Think Inc

5 Activities For Spending Quality Time With Your Child - 0 views

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    Children, no matter how noisy or troublesome they are, all parents feel that they grow up too soon and go their own way seeking their fortune. As long as they are small and with you, make the most of their childhood. Make their childhood memorable by actively participating in activities with them, around them.
Chiki Smith

The Handbook of Cheating Changed The Way I Want My Marriage to Work - 1 views

My hubby and I were married for 2 years but we have been with each other for seven years before we got married. So, it was devastating when I discovered he is cheating on me with his co-worker. I r...

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started by Chiki Smith on 15 Nov 11 no follow-up yet
harisha chavan

ADD|ADHD|kids with autism|Asperger disorder|Syndrome - 1 views

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    Therapeutic Horseback Riding for Kids with Autism There are many activities that benefit kids with autism, but therapeutic horseback riding is growing in popularity not only for the fun it offers, but also for the therapeutic benefits it provides.
Stephanie Sandifer

'Twas the Night Before Christmas Recordable Storybook - 0 views

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    Delight a special child, parent or grandparent with this wonderful recordable book! Create a keepsake storybook by following the simple directions to record your own voice reading this treasured Christmas classic. The book is re-recordable and has a lock feature so that your special recording is kept safe, even when the batteries are replaced. Beautifully illustrated with sturdy board book pages, this is a unique gift made by you - and is sure to be treasured!\n\nFREE BONUS! Also includes two Christmas music CDs, and three Look and Find activity books.\n
Vaughn Tobes

Discover Easy Methods for Cell Phone Spying with the Latest in Phone Spy Technology - 0 views

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    Whether you are a business owner or executive, parent or concerned spouse, cell phone spying is a necessary technology we live with today. Smartphone communications are making it easier to communicate and gather information over the internet like never before. In order to keep watch over these communications, cell phone spying has come to the forefront of smartphone technology.
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Schedule One-On-One Dates with Your Kids - Unordinary Toddler - 0 views

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    A date is defined as a one-on-one outing between parent and child. That's one parent and one child. The great thing about one-on-one dates with your kids is
Child Therapy

Developing Self Confidence In Children - 1 views

started by Child Therapy on 29 Nov 12 no follow-up yet
Think Inc

Some Children Flower At 10, Some At 20….Some At 30! Have Patience. - 0 views

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    Don't Be Impatient - Don't Insult By Comparison! The biggest favour my father did for me was when I failed in 9th class and my younger brother passed (we were in same class!). He did not insult me or compared me with anyone else, including my younger brother.
Vaughn Tobes

Record All Smartphone, Iphone, or Android Calls with RecordiaPro - 0 views

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    Secretly Gather All Mobile Call Recordings as MP3s with RecordiaPro
Vaughn Tobes

Call Recording is Easy on Any Phone with RecordiaPro - 0 views

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    For Business or Personal, RecordiaPro is the #1 Choice for Customers that Demand an Easy to Use Product with Crystal Clear Quality at a Price that's Affordable
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