QUOTE Perhaps most importantly, the resilient children had what psychologists call an "internal locus of control": they believed that they, and not their circumstances, affected their achievements. The resilient children saw themselves as the orchestrators of their own fates. In fact, on a scale that measured locus of control, they scored more than two standard deviations away from the standardization group.
In this audio podcast (appx. 10 minutes), Carol Dweck talks about some mistaken approaches people sometimes take with growth mindset ,and she also shares a great strategy for managing your tendencies to get stuck in a fixed mindset.
Read the article for details about these mental habits:
1. Making excuses.
2. Catastrophizing the future.
3. Seeking audience approval.
4. Believing self-doubt.
5. Putting yourself down.
6. Second-guessing yourself.