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  #1 Helen Xpert on 22 Aug 12

   

  Life offers few possibilities more exhilarating than the prospect of having and raising a kid of your own. Parenting can be difficult; read on for a few tips.
  
  Don't insult your child or try to make him feel powerless when you have to discipline him. Remember that the purpose of any kind of punishment is primarily to help your child learn better behavior, not to inflict unnecessary harm. Calling your child stupid is not going to help him or her improve the negative behavior and will cause self-esteem problems. If you want better behavior, then try to achieve it in a positive way using positive words of encouragement.
  
  When your child confides in you about a problem, you should make an honest effort to view the situation from his or her perspective. Small details you would not dwell over can mean a lot to your child.
  
  As an adoptive parent, you should expect to answer certain questions as your child grows. They will be curious about their biological parents and the reason for the adoption. It is important to be honest with your child, the younger they are when you tell them, the better they will be able to adjust to the idea as they get older.
  
  Although you do need to spend lots of time with the kids, you also need to make time for yourself. This will allow you to keep you own identity along with the role of a parent.
  
  Even dedicated parents need some time for themselves. Even if you are only able to get away for a one or two hours, ask a trusted friend or family member to watch your kids for you. If you do not take breaks, stress will build up and the tensions will keep you from developing a healthy relationship with your children.
  
  Routines create a safe environment for your children. Have them eat and go to bed at the same time. Having a schedule gives the child boundaries and allows the him to prepare for each part of the day.
  
  Parents should never pressure a teenager to choose a college. Many teenagers interpret parents' influence as an attempt to exert control, which often leads them to do the exact opposite thing.
  
  Encouraging your child to play team sports will help build their self-esteem. Giving your child the opportunity and encouragement to participate in team sports, and being there to watch their games, will strengthen your relationship, create shared memories, and build important life skills.
  
  Set up a savings account that you will deposit a set amount into every year. Tough it can be tempting in times of need, avoid depleting these savings for any reason, as it may be impossible to replenish once spent.
  
  Upgrading your parenting skills is tough unless you know where to get good advice. Using the valuable advice in the article above, you can be the kind of skilled, confident parent you want to be. Parenting is a daunting responsibility. Its importance cannot be over-stated. You can achieve this!
  
  
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  <div class="cArrow"> </div><div class="cContentInner">Life offers few possibilities more exhilarating than the prospect of having and raising a kid of your own. Parenting can be difficult; read on for a few tips.<br /><br />Don't insult your child or try to make him feel powerless when you have to discipline him. Remember that the purpose of any kind of punishment is primarily to help your child learn better behavior, not to inflict unnecessary harm. Calling your child stupid is not going to help him or her improve the negative behavior and will cause self-esteem problems. If you want better behavior, then try to achieve it in a positive way using positive words of encouragement.<br /><br />When your child confides in you about a problem, you should make an honest effort to view the situation from his or her perspective. Small details you would not dwell over can mean a lot to your child.<br /><br />As an adoptive parent, you should expect to answer certain questions as your child grows. They will be curious about their biological parents and the reason for the adoption. It is important to be honest with your child, the younger they are when you tell them, the better they will be able to adjust to the idea as they get older.<br /><br />Although you do need to spend lots of time with the kids, you also need to make time for yourself. This will allow you to keep you own identity along with the role of a parent.<br /><br />Even dedicated parents need some time for themselves. Even if you are only able to get away for a one or two hours, ask a trusted friend or family member to watch your kids for you. If you do not take breaks, stress will build up and the tensions will keep you from developing a healthy relationship with your children.<br /><br />Routines create a safe environment for your children. Have them eat and go to bed at the same time. Having a schedule gives the child boundaries and allows the him to prepare for each part of the day.<br /><br />Parents should never pressure a teenager to choose a college. Many teenagers interpret parents' influence as an attempt to exert control, which often leads them to do the exact opposite thing.<br /><br />Encouraging your child to play team sports will help build their self-esteem. Giving your child the opportunity and encouragement to participate in team sports, and being there to watch their games, will strengthen your relationship, create shared memories, and build important life skills.<br /><br />Set up a savings account that you will deposit a set amount into every year. Tough it can be tempting in times of need, avoid depleting these savings for any reason, as it may be impossible to replenish once spent.<br /><br />Upgrading your parenting skills is tough unless you know where to get good advice. Using the valuable advice in the article above, you can be the kind of skilled, confident parent you want to be. Parenting is a daunting responsibility. Its importance cannot be over-stated. You can achieve this!<br /><br /><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.ukandinternationalnannies.co.uk/">Nanny Agency</a></div>

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